You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
exactly. i have had that happen: we will be dating for a few weeks and then they just stop returning your calls
Most of those wife beaters are behind bars now... u planning on joining them any time soon?
I think you hit the nail on the head there !!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Most of those wife beaters are behind bars now... u planning on joining them any time soon?
TxCowboy: She used u as a rebound guy and a emotional tampon that she told all her problems to... and once she was done with you, she realised that you were just the rebound guy and that she didn’t REALLY like u in that way.. and that’s about it, she moved on. This type of thing happens all the time, and yes, its cruel, but you need to just make sure that you are NOT the emotional tampon and that you do NOT end up being a "rebound guy" after she breaks up.
The WAY in which she broke up with you was insulting, yes, but she probably didn’t know how else to say it... maybe she felt so sh!t about doing it that she just couldn’t tell it to you to your face? .. You never know.... but one thing that you need to do is use this as a learning experience, and make sure you do not end up in this position again in the future.
Best of luck....
Laterz...
.... Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.