"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mycroft

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I thought you all might want to here this tip, I just learned about a month ago, I think. When going on a date with a girl that likes to pay, call ahead and when you make reservations give them your credit/debit/charge card, so the girl cannot pay at all, and can not snatch the bill from you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ERRRRR! WROng.... chicks like to do this, so that YOU feel that you have to repay them... sets you up to ask for another date....
it "Impowers" them... IF you really want to bypass this, COOK her dinner. that will way further impress her, instead of showing her that you could outwit her... I would say, use this once in a while... valentines, her BD, special occasions... not as an alternative to bickering over a dinner bill... BTW< IF she pays for dinner, that leaves YOU with more MONEY to surprise her with Flowers, etc...

My suggestion, would be this... IF she always insists on paying, then go out, before you pick her up... get a dozen roses, keep em in your trunk. sometime during dinner, excuse yourself, go out to your car, and flip em from the trunk to her seat. when the bill is paid, don't start a conflict... if she chooses to pay, let it be, but ALWAYS be prepared to pay... then as you're going out to the car, open her door, and she's led straight to that package of roses from YOU.... thats thinking ahead, and it doesn't make her feel in any way offended for wanting to pay for the meal!!!


thats just my 2 cents.....
 
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Well put, I think I am going to try that trick. Thanks for the information, I thought it was a good idea, but you showed me another way.
 
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