Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I thought you all might want to here this tip, I just learned about a month ago, I think. When going on a date with a girl that likes to pay, call ahead and when you make reservations give them your credit/debit/charge card, so the girl cannot pay at all, and can not snatch the bill from you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ERRRRR! WROng.... chicks like to do this, so that YOU feel that you have to repay them... sets you up to ask for another date....
it "Impowers" them... IF you really want to bypass this, COOK her dinner. that will way further impress her, instead of showing her that you could outwit her... I would say, use this once in a while... valentines, her BD, special occasions... not as an alternative to bickering over a dinner bill... BTW< IF she pays for dinner, that leaves YOU with more MONEY to surprise her with Flowers, etc...

My suggestion, would be this... IF she always insists on paying, then go out, before you pick her up... get a dozen roses, keep em in your trunk. sometime during dinner, excuse yourself, go out to your car, and flip em from the trunk to her seat. when the bill is paid, don't start a conflict... if she chooses to pay, let it be, but ALWAYS be prepared to pay... then as you're going out to the car, open her door, and she's led straight to that package of roses from YOU.... thats thinking ahead, and it doesn't make her feel in any way offended for wanting to pay for the meal!!!


thats just my 2 cents.....
 
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Well put, I think I am going to try that trick. Thanks for the information, I thought it was a good idea, but you showed me another way.
 
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