"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guitaronfire411

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This is a new situation for me.

Ex started talking to me and she kept asking me how my dating was going. I kept saying good and eventually found out last night that she wanted a 'friends with benefits' situation with me.

So we had sex and it was wild and passionate. Probably the best sex we have had in months or years pre-split.

She still seems to be on an online dating website even though I said 'I don't like sharing'. Will this become a bigger thing for me than for her, or do you think she'll want it to be something more eventually?

She just turned 30 and I'm 31.

Thanks in advance!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Without knowing all the details, I still predict this wont end well.

You split for a reason. Move on and meet new people.
 
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Either you get back together for real, or you'll be sharing. No illusions.
 
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this is very unlikely to end well, but I also happen to know it is the most hauntingly amazing sex you will ever have so there will be no stopping you.
Just be ready for $hit to hit the fan.
 
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ya, have fun with it while it lasts, just don't get serious about it.

thats when the fun ends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dear Guitar,
Yeah fresh meat does taste better,but an old Lover is just like a pair of much loved slippers,great to slip into at the end of the Day LOL....I have been in this situation many times,unless I am too busy of course I don't think twice about establishing a F.B relationship...If you are short on your regular Oats then it helps to keep in practise,enables that detached nonchalance that other Women respond to....Many Women will prefer a regular servicing by someone they know and trust,remember they are fed on a diet of fear by their Girlie magazines,she has needs and feels secure in your filling them!
 
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