Fvk!i think im losing my touch...

[slickaz]

Man! i been in sydney 2 weeks..i almost almost got a lead into this chic..and due to her work couldnt meet her again..and since then its past the use by date...i havent been out on town here or been laid..DAMNIT! lol..

anyway i also think im losing my touch on pickin up girls..there are so many hot girls here.
thing ive noticed is.
1. there are so many hot girls that being hot here literally doesnt mean alot to them.they just act like normal ppl...
2. normally ppl here dont seem to be social to new people..and im new people.
3. i get second looks but when i smile back they look away..WTF!!

my smiles have never not generated favourable responses..atleast in the form of a smile back..this is annoying and worrying..

im not despo for the lay as ive got nuff of it to last 6 lifetimes..
what i want is the female company..
and that seems to be far reach for me here.

what am i doing wrong? ive started hitting the gym and pools again..
my confidence seems to be coming back up..maybe the new year will bring some good deals...

this year has been one of the worst for me....

any advice?

 

[Solomon]

Hear me out bruh

Man! i been in sydney 2 weeks..i almost almost got a lead into this chic..and due to her work couldnt meet her again..and since then its past the use by date...i havent been out on town here or been laid..DAMNIT! lol..

anyway i also think im losing my touch on pickin up girls..there are so many hot girls here.
thing ive noticed is.
1. there are so many hot girls that being hot here literally doesnt mean alot to them.they just act like normal ppl...
2. normally ppl here dont seem to be social to new people..and im new people.
3. i get second looks but when i smile back they look away..WTF!!

my smiles have never not generated favourable responses..atleast in the form of a smile back..this is annoying and worrying..

im not despo for the lay as ive got nuff of it to last 6 lifetimes..
what i want is the female company..
and that seems to be far reach for me here.

what am i doing wrong? ive started hitting the gym and pools again..
my confidence seems to be coming back up..maybe the new year will bring some good deals...

this year has been one of the worst for me....

any advice?

ayo my man hold upppppppppppp

You forgetting a major, major piece of the puzzle, you forgetting to "network" i.e. social proof at its best.

What you need to do is, find a "meet n greet" type group, or a group that includes your favorite hobby whatever that may be. I think going to bar's and being "the new guy" will also make you stand out, because you are new meat, and women love new meat ROFL

Just keep working out, I meet some cool ass people in the gym in my time, keep doing you, find your favorite hobby's you might run unto a chick there, utilize online dating if u have too

lol

Peace

 

[jdon23]

Its hard to gain a favorable liking from someone if they stereotype bad things about you (ie. All Americans suck- all they care about is getting drunk and fvcking.. u kno the game).

It sounds as if the woman in Sydney are a lot more to themselves from your post and are quite different over there than in the states... This is mainly because every country has different social conditioning and you have to adapt your game to get the score.

I think you have two options laid down before you:

a) try to find a local DJ from Sydney and get him to show you around.. Make him wing for you and have him introduce you to HIS friends. This should make your job a LOT easier! Show him you have some skill as well by being his wing. This will earn his respect.

or

b) Go for the tourists! IT should be easy to play the "oh we're both new in town, lets check this place out!!". Plus what do most people want to do on a vacation- have sex and drink. Sounds like a good time to me my friend.


Good luck

 

[slaog]

I'd imagine that the Aussie girls are more down to earth (in general) than American girls so maybe a change in tactics are needed ie they might think you're coming on too strong or that you're not confident enough.

 

[slickaz]

Thanks Solo, Jdon..

I went out 2 nights ago and started talking to this dude from Japan.
turns out he's a promoter for Hip Hop n RnB n has heard of the club i used to part own. he was very excited. So he gave me VIP passes to the after party to the ***** Cat dolls and Lady gaga concert.
that was huge for me coz i went there and bam! met like 3 chixs
i woke up with one this morning..lol.

but agreed Slaog, girls here are alot mnore down to earth, they'll smile at you if you smile at em. its not bad its just a problem when you feel like the new guy and need that motivation to approach. i notice that guys here dont really approach girls here alot. ive noticed hott girls dont even get second looks, i duno why.. so its a bit whack for me coz i dunno if approaching is good here..lol..

 

[Black suit]

Dude, different place, different social conditions. You don't have the be pressed to female company. It's gonna be there soon enough. In the meantime, have some fun: maybe with non-female-involved stuff too, you know.

 

[Black suit]

Oh, and btw, I'm coming to Sydney!

 

[daygameguy]

Its still better than the gold digger you had back in the states. lol

Everyone has a tough time in a new country. Just observe and learn for some time.

Keep being your best self. Eventually you will start making it click with everyone around you.

Oh and get a good wing. Build some friendships with women around you. Build some social proof. I have heard night game in Sydney is all about having social proof.

You can always call Alex Coulson, the Australian PUA. lol