“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fvcking pretty boy looks

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i'm 18 just now and i've been told i've got pretty boy "girly" looks, which make me look gay. it is definately not the clothes i wear or my voice which is excessively deep, but my face. in my experience, the guys who get laid the most are the ones who look older, whilst the ones who look younger, like me, don't get enough

what chance do i have of becoming an alpha if i look gay?

would a bulking programme help me get any masculinity? i'm 145lbs at the moment. do u think a bulking programme would make my face look more masculine?

i'm growing my hair long just now to try to make me look more masculine. do u think long hair would go with a pretty boy look?

do u think blonde highlights thru my hair would make me look even gayer?

cheers guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you're eight-teen, I recommend growing out facial hair and getting a shaggy hair-cut-- just go all around "shaggy"

Oh, and you shouldn't let others change the way you look. If you like the way you look now, then **** the b1tch who said you look gay.

She is most likely just being an upt1ght b1tch anywho, and you probably don't look gay.
 

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Iv'e got the same thing lol. A girl I know called me a pretty boy. Iv'e grown my hair out a little bit, sideburns help for me. When my facial hair comes in nice and thick i'll grown some kind of pimpin goatee. Iv'e noticed for some reason older women 21-25 are more interested and attracted to me, but i'm not complaining.

You could grow facial hair, lift weights to gain some muscle or whatever, but for the most part you can't really change what your face looks like. Unless you want to go to the extremes of plastic surgery. I suggest if you don't wear glasses to maybe go out and pick up a pair of dress glasses, I wear contacts and glasses. Iv'e gotten comments before that I look older with my glasses on, and even smart too. (ScAry)
 

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Originally posted by buckwheat18
Iv'e noticed for some reason older women 21-25 are more interested and attracted to me, but i'm not complaining.
Exactly the same lol! Not too long ago this 21 yr old was into me coz i playing the "young, innocent and virile" card :D

Originally posted by buckwheat18

You could grow facial hair
not enough just now :( it's really pissing me off how my sidies haven't come thru yet. still pretty thin and clear hairs there. although i've only been growing them for 2 weeks. do u think they'll come in eventually if i don't shave? or should i keep shaving until they become darker and thicker?



I actually have a pair of glasses that i don't wear, but perhaps since they're pretty rectangular, they'll give my face a more square look. great idea m8!
 

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DONT GROW OR DO ANYTHING THAT WILL RUIN YOUR LOOKS

What i mean, is that I know a 18 yr old also is very good looking, like "pretty boy" looking - which is slight trace of femininity.......

While I have very mascuilne good looks...

so work with what you have, sideburns could help, but if it makes you look bad, dont have them....

just wear approrpiate clothes and emphasize your masculinity in tone of voice, how u act and weight......
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have the same thing but maybe we could use the good boy looks to our advantage so if ur a pretty boy just show them that your a man under the pretty boy persona:cool:
 

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I get hit on by guys. Women ask me if Im gay... but they say "Tell me your not gay!" because I'm so ****ing sexy theyd b really dissapointed if I was. But I still look "masculine." I am 16 I look 22, I grow a full beard and Im as alpha as a man can be. Just worry about looking your best... not what "type" of good looking you are.
 

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in the short term, I'd do lots of cardio and use a product called yohimburn on your face (www.yohimburn.com) it spot reduces fat (don't ****ing argue with me, spot reducing is possible) and it will give you a toned defined face a la shwarzenegger. Worked wonders for me.
 
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