"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fvcking pissed at this b!tch - even though it's my fault

Korrupt

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Original topic: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=206044

Pretty much was a d!ck to this girl and walked out on her the second time we hung-out. Long story short, I texted her a genuine apology a few days later, she bought it, and I was able to set up another hang-out (about a week ago) for tonight.

She texted me several times during the week just to say "hi" or whatever. Asking what I was doing, what my plans were for the 4th, etc... Tuesday rolls around and she texts me something about working that night but being off till Friday, so I say she should come to me Wednesday night. Her response? "I'll let you know :)" I immediately made plans with another girl (and got laid Wednesday night).

So around 5pm Wednesday evening she hits me up seeming very excited about hanging out (asking what I want to do, etc.). Well fvck... Unbeknownst to her I made other plans, and end up telling her (on the phone) that I have a lot of work to do this week and can only hang out once and that Saturday would probably be the better/more fun day to hang out.

She apparently had to work from 7pm last night to 7am this morning, so I texted her around 1pm saying to text/call me when she wakes up. I get a text around 6pm...

Her: Hey
Me: Hey. I'm ready to head over.
Her: What do you want to do?
Me: Whatever we want (I list some sh!t)
(40 minutes later) Her: Honestly... I had a really hard night at work and am thinking this might not be a good idea since last time was hella messed up.
Me: Lol quick change of mind since Wednesday.

No response. She worked the same hours Tuesday night-Wednesday morning and actually said "work killed me," but was still totally down to hang out. Not this time, however (which is how I know it's bullsh!t). She also wasn't bothered on Wednesday about "last time being hella messed up" (which is also how I know it's bullsh!t).

What do I believe happened? I think me dropping out on Wednesday pissed her off and she either (1) made other plans without telling me, or (2) is purposely being a kunt because she's pissed.

I deleted her number and it has taken all of my will power to not call her a fvcking scumbag kunt piece of trash for setting up a date a week in advance and flaking at the last minute and that I couldn't hang out Wednesday night because I fvcked another girl.

So how should I play this? Wait for her to hit me up (if she does) and go from there?

And why do I care, you ask? Because I want to use her as the cvm dumpster she is, and when she asks for something "more" I want to crush her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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elitemulk

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I think she flaked because instead of telling her what you wanted to do, you gave suggestions, apparently women dont like that. From personal experience, women that work shifts are a ballache. next.
 

Sonny Knight

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Shakes Head And Walk Out Of Thread
 

the_great_gaia

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I went thru a similar experience; this thread and your past thread. It grosses me out to have sex when a female is on her "cycle". Ugh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just to piss you out more. How fucing stupid you are. You ****ing maschotist. You seem to be more interested in revenge, hurting her than herself. Guys like you should just kill themselves.
 

ebracer05

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Korrupt said:
And why do I care, you ask? Because I want to use her as the cvm dumpster she is, and when she asks for something "more" I want to crush her.
I don't think it was really necessary to read anything more than this, including your previous thread. You've got a problem man.
 

pinkfl

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I don't know what a previous woman did to you to make you this way (or if this is a learned behavior from a screwed up parent), but the appropriate course of action should not be to punish and "crush" every future woman you come across.

You need help, you're not in the right mindset to be pursuing women right now. Focus on yourself and getting rid of your misogyny. Feel free to dislike loose women as much as you want, to not see them as potential partners for a serious relationship or marriage, whatever. But don't punish every single person you meet for someone else's crimes.

You acknowledged yourself that you need help in your previous thread. Maybe you should look into it.
 
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