"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fvck the b!tches like this...

dk1990S111

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So tired of the b!tches that think just cuz you say hi or good morning to them that you are trying to fvck them.

I work for my parents company and I am a manager so I try to say good morning to everyone and be friendly. This girl around my age got hired recently, she just got engaged, shes pretty but not my type so I have no interest in her. Anyways I say good morning to her most times when I am walking by her on her way in the door. She just keeps walking and doesn't say a word like she's too good to say anything back.

Hope the guy she marries enjoys being with a b!tch with a sh!tty personality. :cuss:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SAYNO

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So why bother then? Stop speaking to her. But your right alot of woman have their head up thier ass. I just ignore them.:yes:
 

dk1990S111

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Lol Im actually not thin skinned at all. I can take pretty much whatever you wanna say to me and just shrug it off.

The reason for the post is because while I hate when people who work with me call my parents "your mom said..." or "do you know where your dad is?" because started at the bottom just like everyone else and worked my way up to where I am in the company, I just cant comprehend how someone can knowingly ignore their bosses son just because she thinks she's hot sh!t.

I say good morning to the old ladies I work with too, my parents told me years ago that they wanted me to start saying good morning to everyone. I dont want to fvck any of them, its just part of my job.
 

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Tell her when you are absolutely sure it's only you and her, "If you don't drop the snobby act, you are going to end up out back in the dumpster." Provided you have never had any conflicts with employees, when she complains to someone, just do the googly eyes and twirl a finger around your ear.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Not everybody is going to have a nice personality that you work with. Why would you care?
 

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Here is the proof! Even ill-bred personalities can make YOU think about THEM. :kick:

Be honest. I see myself thinking about human behaviour AS THIS time by time as well. IT IS confusing. But, so what? Simply shrugg it off and celebrate yourself for not being able to see behind the curtains of some people. :crackup:

Anyways, please tell me about HER skeletons in the closet, your office talks about soon. :cheer: I bet you ignored your own feelings and the obvious in that situation and she is hiding something. The probability is just so sad as funny. Why? There must be more as you wrote about. Everyone knows such kind of situations who occur permanent in life.


Cheers
 

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It's not just women but men too. You say hi to some people and they just ignore you. Oh, well. Nothing we can do about it.
 

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As was said, the best thing to do is not let her get under your skin. You're the boss right? She is disrespecting you. That's her problem. You should file that one under your hat, and move on with your productive day.

However, there is a reason why she's treating you like this.

And it could be a few different reasons:

She's attracted to you, she see you as a threat, someone that's not easily manipulated by her smile and attention, etc.

Also/or:

You said you say that to everyone. Well maybe she feels "special" (like entitled b1tches do) so she feels you should be giving her extra special attention. Instead, you're treating her like everyone else.....and that is the problem. You're not putting her on the pedestal she feels she deserves to be on.

In that case, keep up the good work.:up:

Also, on further thought, if she's not responding to you, showing disrespect, then by all means, don't say hi to her anymore. Just ignore her. She's probably used to people saying "what's wrong?" "what can I do so you'll say hi to me?" Fvck that noise. Just ignore the b1tch.
 

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You need to lighten up man. You're only reinforcing and deepening an overall negative attitude by responding (even if only in your head) to these sort of experiences with a "fvck these punk @ss ho3s!" attitude. It'll cripple your game in the long run for certain - you'll ALWAYS be on the look out for that moment that you can confirm your bias and say "I knew it! All you b1tches are the same!" The issue here seems to be that you take yourself too seriously and demand (internally) that people take you just as seriously right back, meaning you probably need to work on your own self-worth. Greet these people with an ethnic accent of your choice. If they stop in confusion, quickly revert to how you regularly talk and ask them "can I help you with something?" with a completely straight face. Tell them something stupid, anything, that you find funny (the point being to get yourself to laugh and disregard whether or not they find it funny) Don't turn into a misogynist because you're not getting the attention/respect you think you're entitled to for being nice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guys just to be clear this isnt keeping me up at night that this one girl isnt responding when I say hi or good morning to her lol in the long run I just laugh to myself because she probably doesnt have any clue that when the owner of a company hears about this kind of behavior thats what causes her to stay at her near minimum wage position instead of moving up in the company. This chick doesnt even bother me enough for me to tell my parents about it, I make more than twice what she makes so whatever, she can ignore me all she wants.

Its not a big deal that she doesnt respond to me, like peaks&valleys said I just go about my day and get my job done. The reason I felt like ranting and starting the thread is because I see it way too often, me and a buddy will be out on a friday or saturday night and he will just say hi to a girl and she flat out ignores him. I dont even bother saying anything now after observing that so many times over the last couple years. When out picking up on girls I wont even acknowledge them unless they are already looking at me.

Also another friend of mine posted on FB the other day "Said "good morning" to a random passing student in the hall. She looked at my like I was f*cking crazy! Sorry for being nice?"

Just seems like way too often girls think they are above responding to a simple good morning.
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
Greet these people with an ethnic accent of your choice. If they stop in confusion, quickly revert to how you regularly talk and ask them "can I help you with something?" with a completely straight face. Tell them something stupid, anything, that you find funny (the point being to get yourself to laugh and disregard whether or not they find it funny)
I like this idea lol gunna do it tomorrow morning
 

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Make that lil biznitch stay late for a month. Then lay her off. That'll learn her.
 

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If you are a manager, why not just fire her? Am I missing something? Why would you put up with bad attitude from a subordinate?
 
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