"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fvck buddy - do's and don'ts

scordate

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continued from another thread;

here is the official guide to fvck buddy ( FB )

a fvck buddy is a girl that you only / mainly meet to fvck her

please only post if you have actual knowledge / experience with getting / keeping / maintaining a FB

please dont ask questions here; will this / that work or not

this thread is about collecting actual facts

various opinions, although interesting for the sake of the argument, should be avoided

information is wanted about;

what kind of woman

how did you set it up

how often

what other activities were there

what kind of games would she play, if any,
to be more than a FB

how long did it last

how did it end and by who

best place to meet; yours / hers / car / motel


share your experience !

/ scordate
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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pancakepalace

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Hi,

I have a had a **** buddy for the last three years. Although it never lasts more than a month or two, she keeps coming back. The way it is set up, we don't screw around when either of us is in a relationship. Otherwise, we probably will be meeting regularly. After a few months, she usually starts to get attached and wants more. At that point I stop it.

I think it has been working because I do not care at all to be in a relationship with her. This, I believe, drives her crazy.

Basically, she is an old friend that I reconnected with 3-4 years ago.
 

thecraftylefty

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I've had three of them at different times in my life.

The first was a girl that I went to high school with. I never really though much of her then, but after my second year of college she IMed me and I hinted at "getting together." From there I told her to meet me at my grandma's house while she's away in Florida for the winter. We screwed there and that's how we become f-buddies. We did it in my car, at my house, and at my friend's apartment when he had a party and invited us both. That one lasted about a year. We did it on average every two weeks.

She was a really nice girl that got fvcked over a lot (or so she told me) in the dating scene. I just wanted to screw. She didn't have any problem with that, although she probably wanted something more with me.

The next one was a girl I met at a college party. I told her to come back to my place (but I had to switch rooms with a friend, but it worked out). She was to keen on having sex that night but eventually caved in. After that we would have sex throughout the week (this one lasted 6 months) at college and were just friends outside of the bedroom. We'd occasionally bump into each other and it wasn't awkward.

She was a freak though. She was the loudest chick I've ever been with. The craziest place we did it was in restroom in the building where campus security had their offices. Great sex. Always dependable.

The last one was a girl I met at a party. She had a crush on me so it wasn't a big deal. I just had to not screw things up and it was a done deal. Only lasted for less than a month cause I really only got with her because I wanted sex, plain and simple.

All the girls that were my f-buddy you wouldn't expect though. They were "good" girls outside of the bedroom that you wouldn't guess would have sex with a guy no strings attached. They were just as sex crazed as much as I was. Go figure.

I always ended because I moved onto other things in life. That's how it goes. No big deal.

Basically though, the rules of having a f-buddy aren't that hard to follow. Meet her, have sex once. Don't bring up your "relationship" until after the second time. I found that's the best because they know the sex is good and would rather get it and just be "friends" than not get it at all. Only meet up for sex. Nothing else. Don't to go to the movies together, no dinner dates, nothing. From there it should be smooth sailing. It just about the sex, that's all. No feelings (even though they may develop over time, don't cave in).


thecraftylefty
 

NewMan

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Here are a few golden rules.

1) Don't say I love you or I miss you

2) Don't meet her parents or other relatives

3) Don't buy her gifts

4) ALWAYS WEAR A RUBBER

5) Don't cuddle or spoon

6) if you stay over night - don't stay for breakfast

7) Unless your social circle is intwined - not let her meet your friends.
 

cave dweller

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my buddy.......

Hey,

I have had a fvck buddy for several years.

I live my life, she lives hers.

She calls me about once a week and wants to 'slip' over.

She always wants to go out to movies or a meal or drinks, but, I have always said no and will keep it that way.

If she wants to give me some pvssy, fine...........If not, Oh well.

cave dweller
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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