"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fvck buddy broke her foot - now uninterested

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Don't get me wrong, it SUCKS that she broke her foot and I definitely feel for her, but her reason for not wanting to hang out/fvck has nothing to do with the pain or it being hard to go to/from my place. Her reason is that she rather me not see her "like this" (in her boot or whatever).

Long story short, I tried to reassure her, invited her over for Wednesday, and got "that's a definite possibility" as a response. Lmao. She was completely the opposite before she broke her foot.

Similar experiences? Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not to sound harsh, but you should probably not be giving a sh!t and worry about your other girls right now. She'll be back when she's out of the boot.
 
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the broken foot is just an excuse, she changed her mind and this was her way out
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She didn't break anything bro
 
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Her shyt is weak. Next.
 
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Yeah, she's gotten weird... She hit me up last Wednesday and said she wouldn't be able to make it (no sh!t) because she had to work late, then went on to say that "she'd rather be naked in my bed," and asked if we could do next week. I told her yes (in so many words) but have heard nothing from her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She probably broke her foot on purpose in order to avoid you. Girls these days are getting more creative with their excuses. The other option is she probably fell off some guy she was riding other then you. She wont tell you that though so she can lead you on....

Says the typical SS poster lmfao
 
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Luke!! said:
She probably broke her foot on purpose in order to avoid you. Girls these days are getting more creative with their excuses. The other option is she probably fell off some guy she was riding other then you. She wont tell you that though so she can lead you on....

Says the typical SS poster lmfao
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LOL repped.
 
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Korrupt said:
Don't get me wrong, it SUCKS that she broke her foot and I definitely feel for her, but her reason for not wanting to hang out/fvck has nothing to do with the pain or it being hard to go to/from my place. Her reason is that she rather me not see her "like this" (in her boot or whatever).

Long story short, I tried to reassure her, invited her over for Wednesday, and got "that's a definite possibility" as a response. Lmao. She was completely the opposite before she broke her foot.
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Hmm...weird a girl you are sleeping with is saying "that's a definite possibility" this far in. But don't rationalize their behavior, drive you crazy, I've had girls saying they want to have sex in 1 hour only to not answer the phone 10 min later.

Don't take it so seriously either, tell her you need to know about Wed because other plans are on the horizon. If another girl phoned you tomorrow to go make out on Wed, what would you do?
 
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Some random plate spinning wisdom I once read:

Girls' lives are full of dramas: health issues, injuries, allergies, family fights, BFF fights, work nightmares etc. If you only have one, her dramas become your dramas (ask any married man). If you don't own one, her dramas are hers, and other than a mild annoyance, you'll be too busy with other girls to care.

When you're in that position, and something like this happens, you can simply say "ok babe, you gotta do what you gotta do, get well soon" then get on with other more interesting things in your life, including other girls. Sometimes your plates need downtime for maintenance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agree with above. Just depends on what you want. If it's just a fb, no big deal...tell her to take it easy and you'll get together when she's back on her feet. If you're dating, and you see her as long term potential or that's where it's headed, then maybe offer to come over and cook her some dinner or something if she's sick or injured.
 
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Did she send you any footage for proof? Who is footing the bill for her treatment? Maybe you should just put your foot down and give her the boot. No need to stick around until the other shoe drops. Tell her she isn't that good a booty call. She might make a heel-face turn, or she might try to stomp all over you verbally, but at least you're not tip-toeing around the subject anymore.
 
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