Enigma2517
Don Juan
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So I've been trying to get (back) with this one girl. She's sort of my oneitis but I'm making sure to mack on as many other girls as possible too, just to eliminate as much AFCness as possible. Anyway, we met each other, built rapport very quickly, and finally hooked up at a dance like two weeks later or something that. Then things just kinda fell apart. Not in a bad destructive way more like mixed signals, me not asking her out, her eventually losing interest (or maybe just thinking I don't like her). But either way, its worth one last shot.
Although I hate to think about and rehearse what I'm going to say to chicks (never works, whatever I say on the spot sounds more natural and smooth), I actually thought of something that might be worth contemplating. I was just thinking about why I like this girl and what drew me to her. The little details aren't important but I realized that for most of the reasons I get these flashbacks in my head of the two single times we ever spent time together outside of school. She came over to do a project once and then of course was the dance. Thinking about it makes me mushy with emotion. Things just seemed so carefree and fun those days. Now of course any time we talk theres always a little bit of mutual tension and things like that. I was wondering, would it help to bring up either of those events. Kind of like a "remember how much fun we had when..." reminiscing sort of thing. The project was just a lot of flirting and rapport building, the dance was dirty dancing and making out. Think it would be a good idea to bring up one or both of those?
Although I hate to think about and rehearse what I'm going to say to chicks (never works, whatever I say on the spot sounds more natural and smooth), I actually thought of something that might be worth contemplating. I was just thinking about why I like this girl and what drew me to her. The little details aren't important but I realized that for most of the reasons I get these flashbacks in my head of the two single times we ever spent time together outside of school. She came over to do a project once and then of course was the dance. Thinking about it makes me mushy with emotion. Things just seemed so carefree and fun those days. Now of course any time we talk theres always a little bit of mutual tension and things like that. I was wondering, would it help to bring up either of those events. Kind of like a "remember how much fun we had when..." reminiscing sort of thing. The project was just a lot of flirting and rapport building, the dance was dirty dancing and making out. Think it would be a good idea to bring up one or both of those?
