"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Future Girlfriend? Need Advice!

What should I do?

  • Date Her

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Dump Her

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • Wait It Out

    Votes: 2 50.0%

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CORVETTE06

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Ok so here's the deal. For about a month i've been hanging out with this really beautiful girl at my college. She has blonde hair, looks like britney spears and has nice tits and a nice big ass.

She's crazy about me, but one day turned psycho b/c she knows i flirt with tons of girls and go out with alot of diff girls. shes mad because she wants to be the only girl. she said she wants to be my girlfriend and doesnt want me hanging out with other girls.

I told her im not ready for a relationship because i just got out of one. She got mad, but still likes me. She tried getting me jealous by saying she made out with a guy. i honestly didnt care, and i told her ' thats cool did u have fun? '. when i acted like i didnt care she went crazy again asking why i didnt care.

she parties a lot since she just got into her sorority. i dont know if i should give her a chance and date and see how she is. if i date her and dump her rite away, she will get the whole school to hate me since she is in a sorority.

and also shes always horny all the time.

should i date her? dump her? or just keep hanging out with her and see what happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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Tell her you need a girl that doesn't try to limit your life. If you two dated, you'd still talk and hang out with other girls. However, you'd be faithful. Flirting doesn't mean cheating.
 

Docs

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Classic AW.

If you want to date this chick...you have to make the point known that she can't cling onto you like she is, and freak out over little details.

I think she's more trouble for the worth though, seeing how you noted she partied, tried to get you jealous and flipped out on you because you talk to girls....mmhmm...not fair is it?
 

Jack McCrack

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She seems like an easy lay.

I vote Wait it Out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lordson

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i agree with Jack McCrack

depends how much of a concicnce/how much morals you have
 

CORVETTE06

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i dunno what to do man, i cant stop thinking about this girl. and now shes actin like she dont like me nemore cuz she wants me to think i lost her.

i love her but i hate her.

she pisses me off when she yells at me. for example:

on the phone at 3 in the morning:

Me: 'you must be tired'
Her: Oh my god! don't tell me how i should feel! i will know if im tired or not, i dont need you to tell me!

yesterday on the phone:

Her: i have so much work to do
Me: 'you must be busy'
Her: OH MY GOD what did I tell you!? don't tell me how i should feel!
 

KillaCam

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Those are bad, bad signs.

What the hell are you doing on the phone to her at 3am anyway?

Only you know if she's worth the trouble.
 

Paintballguy

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KillaCam said:
Those are bad, bad signs.

What the hell are you doing on the phone to her at 3am anyway?

Only you know if she's worth the trouble.
Yea, honestly I would just hit it and quit it. Uber clingy girls are bad bad bad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lordson

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she doesn't sound like shes worth the trouble

your phone conversationg might be out of context, but it looked liek you were trying to show some empathy, and she was in a ****ty mood and jsut cracked it at you for no reason

which is completely unacceptable

just next her, she might come crawling back, and if not youre better off
 
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