Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Further Separation between Player and DJ

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There are many guys I know that were so called "players" in "their prime"...

But at what cost was their frivolous escapades of youth?

Ginseng pills, lots of child support, and an unimpressive amount of average chicks.

DJs are better than that! :)

Players get a little to alot more ***** than us depending on their caliber of tricks, but check this out:

They end up unsatisfied!

Why? First off, their famed game only attracts "partial" women.

Either these women have good looks and no brain, good sex but no good looks, or a brain and no good looks or sex...

Secondly, because their main goal is simply sex, their relationships end up a complete mess!

"You can't turn a ho into a housewife"-- Ludacris

DJs avoid all of that vain pursuit by by focusing on their own lives and desires, and a single DJ usually lands a higher caliber of woman than a player.

USUALLY.

So a message to DJs, new and old: We want complete women and they are very rare!

So getting Grade A pvssy is rare as well!

It's okay to settle if you just need some:cool: , but do get caught up in it.

A DJ is a portrait, not a mirror!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does this mean DJ have all fun but never the consequence, where as player have little fun and suffer consequences?
 

strong like bull

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dj vs player?

i think dj vs PIMP would be a much more interesting comparison.

in my eyes, the DJs goal is to focus within and build strength of self. then to solidify that strength, push out towards the rest of the world and perhaps find a woman who can keep up with you.

a "pimp," on the other hand, seems to gather strength by manipulating others. the pimp draining the power of others and using it for their personal will. i read a player_supreme post a while back, where he pretty muc hsaid...

"who needs to break their back working a 75k a year job, when youve got your women buying your food, clothes, paying your bills, paying your car payment... that all adds up."

and hes right - it does add up. although, i do think both ways have their place. its all about YOU - how do YOU want to live?

-SLB
 
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