"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Remulak

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So a girl I dated a couple months ago (****ed her a couple times) came to my 21st birthday party. She basically ended it by saying "she didn't wanna lead me on". I took it as a rejection and moved on. Lately I've been acting pretty disinterested not because I dislike her I actually like her just that's what I've heard to do. Obviously I was completely wasted. I don't remember much from the night but I remember she ended up in my bed. I know she wasn't that drunk because my friends told me the next day she wasn't. I remember making out with her and her saying "you're soo drunk", God knows what I said. I'm wondering if she still may have feelings for me in some way or atleast somewhat interested. I mean she left the party which was packed to come in my room. She just confuses me i would rather her not have hooked up with me than to give me some false hopes. Maybe i can atleast get an f-buddy out of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah...sounds to me like she prob. still likes you and said the **** she said was just her way of runin game...i dunno....heres a suggestion call her and ask her why she took advantage of you at the party :) play the ****y/funny attitude..see where it takes you....like for instance say something like YOU: why'd you take advantage of me at that party.....
HER: bla blah
YOU: well i feel violated. "pause"... youd better take me out to dinner to make things right
HER: blah bblah
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GL

Respect
 

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oh snap, i read this earlier and didnt know what to say. i like what livestrong said tho.

haha, call her a rapist for a few days. play the role-reversal angle. thats all i can add.
 
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