"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Funny vid ripping MGTOW
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Yeah i noticed that, seems odd to me, i mean you think he'd have at least had a 5/10, he's got humor and a bit of charisma and isn't hideous
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A LOT of time I see men on this board taking personal responsibility for the behavior of fvcked up people. Instead of simply saying "wow, that was a fvked up person, I need to learn to screen better" they say "what did I do wrong, why didnt she like me, how did I lose her interest?!"
The simple response is, if you keep encountering fvcked up partners, you need to screen better, possibly change where you meet them, etc. It's that simple.
In my defense, I need to screen better. Changing habits is hard but being a flawed person is not the end of the world.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't think it's more of the "where". The venue/place has nothing to do with it, as the weeding out is done on a case-by-case basis.
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just like everyone here thinking that every girl who doesn't suite their needs is a BPD.
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The video is funny and actually represents the MAJORITY of MGTOW, even though, this is not what the MGTOW movement is supposed to be about.
- It's not supposed to be about you wanting to get dates and sex, can't get them, then running off saying all women are bytches.
- The movement is supposed to be about guys who are just tired of DEALING with the nuisances that come with being in a relationship with women, or dating women. Such as a guy who just came off a bad divorce, a guy who is having problems in the Family Court over seeing his kids, a guy who is tired of playing the "dating game", etc. Also includes guys who are just fvcking disgusted at the general behavior of American women.
I would say only about 15% of MGTOWs are actually MGTOWS. The other 85% are like the guy in this video, which isn't a MGTOW at all, it's actually what you guys would refer to as an AFC, as he can't get dates/sex/women in general because his Looks, Personality, and Finances are off.
It's why you guys refer to me as being "too negative" at times. Because I'm getting women, dates, and sex, but I'm fvcking DISGUSTED by actions of various groups of American women. One thing that really fvcking disgusts me is how they treat their children. I know bytches that put their bills in their kids name, then once the kid turns 18, they are already starting off life with like a fvcking 540 credit score.
