Funny thing.

[European-DJ]

I just realized that this forum is all about 'how to get a girlfriend', for the pure reason of - 6 months later - asking the question 'how do I forget my girlfriend'

 

[backseatjuan]

I think your thoughts are similar to seeing glass half empty. Interaction with a woman gives completness, something that sex and ons can't give you.

 

[perseverance]

I think your thoughts are similar to seeing glass half empty. Interaction with a woman gives completness, something that sex and ons can't give you.

What happens if you have that completeness before you start interacting with women or what happens if you develop that completeness when you are interacting with women? Do women become surplus to requirements or are they become lower in value? Because the way I see things at the moment is that women are of low value in my life because I am happy, I'm content, I'm well on my way to becoming the man I want to be and I have never once needed a woman to make me feel complete.

 

[SoSuave666]

What happens if you have that completeness before you start interacting with women or what happens if you develop that completeness when you are interacting with women? Do women become surplus to requirements or are they become lower in value? Because the way I see things at the moment is that women are of low value in my life because I am happy, I'm content, I'm well on my way to becoming the man I want to be and I have never once needed a woman to make me feel complete.

This is huge. I think that once you have this sense of "being" you are more inclined to find the right woman. They always come around when you least expect it. I wouldn't necessarily say "low value," but rather "not a priority." Right now I am on the same path, and really only have time for women between the hours of 10pm-3am on Friday/Saturday night.

 

[Diaforetikos]

First off European, this site has so much information, but people don't let it permanently transform their lives. They change a little bit and get all big headed because they think they can flirt with girls. But they never spend the time to develop their character, so by the time the girl realizes the guy is a fake, it's too late. The man loses her, and is back here moping. Invest in your character, and become a better overall person.

As for perseverance, if your life is already good without women, you technically don't need em. Of course you want them around, but that's assuming they're the type you want to be around.

For me, I'm not ready to be married yet, but I still like women in my life. But I can easily and happily live without them. I know my value and I don't require women to prove anything to myself.