"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Funny story from when I was on ban

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I was at this outlet mall in Orlando. I had just got done seeing a BackPage escort. I was at this Brazilian restaurant/bar kiosk. I had been here before and last time I was here, the girls were really rude like they were ignoring me. Same thing happened this time.

I had to sit there and wait for minutes for them to even acknowledge me even though there was no one else there. I would ask them a question about the menu and they would barely utter a one-word response and then they would go do something else. It was like I was invisible and they would rather me be gone. Did I look like a total creep? Did they smell hooker stench on me? Well eventually I ordered an overpriced drink and overpriced food.

Then, I heard them talking to each other in a language that wasn't English.

I whipped out my Google Translator app and typed in Portuguese "do you speak English?" and showed it to them. She said "a little."

So then I started asking them simple questions about the menu, etc. in Portuguese.

From that point forward, they were very nice. They even gave me half a free drink and a free box of popcorn.

I often communicate with BackPage escorts using Google Translator, mostly to Spanish, but sometimes Portuguese.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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