I asked this girl out that I'd been chatting with at the gym a little that I really "liked",
her interest level was really high for about a month, went out on some dates, she was calling/ txting all the time all was good
I thought we were supposed to hang out, she flaked through txt. I call her she ignores my call. I get pissed send her a txt saying I want to talk to her before I say **** it and look elsewhere. she calls saying she is stressed and was gonna' call me later blah blah blah.
so I continue to be a *****, I go into her work to ask her to lunch twice! the following week(I work five minutes from her) and get excuses both times but she seems happy enough to see me.
I tell her I don't care what happens between us I just really enjoyed talking to her and seeing her and I thought if that ended it would be a damn shame, she's like "I'm glad you told me that but I still want to date you!".
I was so used to getting constant attention from her that I turned into a total ***** at this point since she'd been giving me the cold shoulder for about a week, I send her a message after I leave her work. "You're a riot babe! I can't figure out if you really are complicated like you say or if I'm just slow"
so she sends one back
"Maybe a mixture of both
. I need space, that means back off. Let me figure things out for myself and I will call you. If I wasn't planning on calling you I'd tell you to delete my number but I haven't done that for a reason."
so I just respond
"alright babe I can dig it"
haven't heard from her in over 3 weeks!
anyway, I've been reading on these forums for the past few days I think this story shows my huge lack of experience
her interest level was really high for about a month, went out on some dates, she was calling/ txting all the time all was good
I thought we were supposed to hang out, she flaked through txt. I call her she ignores my call. I get pissed send her a txt saying I want to talk to her before I say **** it and look elsewhere. she calls saying she is stressed and was gonna' call me later blah blah blah.
so I continue to be a *****, I go into her work to ask her to lunch twice! the following week(I work five minutes from her) and get excuses both times but she seems happy enough to see me.
I tell her I don't care what happens between us I just really enjoyed talking to her and seeing her and I thought if that ended it would be a damn shame, she's like "I'm glad you told me that but I still want to date you!".
I was so used to getting constant attention from her that I turned into a total ***** at this point since she'd been giving me the cold shoulder for about a week, I send her a message after I leave her work. "You're a riot babe! I can't figure out if you really are complicated like you say or if I'm just slow"
so she sends one back
"Maybe a mixture of both
. I need space, that means back off. Let me figure things out for myself and I will call you. If I wasn't planning on calling you I'd tell you to delete my number but I haven't done that for a reason."so I just respond
"alright babe I can dig it"
haven't heard from her in over 3 weeks!
anyway, I've been reading on these forums for the past few days I think this story shows my huge lack of experience