Funny story about a girl I met.

[El Payaso]

I was at a bar with some friends tonight. Two of them are close friends. I'll call them Bob and Ian (not their real names).

While we were there, Ian's younger sister joins us. She seems to take an interest in me and starts flirting heavy, asking me questions etc. She asks me if I have some gum and I put my hand in my pockets to give her some and she says "No, I want the one in your mouth".

Because her brother (Ian) was there, I tried to play it off by saying "Nah, you don't want it. It's lost its flavor" and gave her a new one. After a while she blows a bubble and asks me to pop it with my mouth. Lol. Her brother (Ian) is staring at us the whole time and I can tell he's not liking it. I pop it with my fingers and she gets pouty and says "I wanted you to do it with your mouth".

We keep talking and she's constantly touching me, talking about how she wants me etc. She asks me to come dance with her. At that point her brother (Ian) taps me and says we're about to go to the club soon. Lol. I tell him to hold on for a bit. I ask her if she's coming to the club. She says she wants to but they (my friends) won't tell her which club they're going to. She asks me to text her if I find out. I say okay. (My friends decided afterwards not to go to the club. I wonder why. Lol.)

She asks me to see her off. I walk her down the block to get a cab. Here's the real kicker, as we were waiting, I turn around and look behind us. I see Ian's younger brother watching us from some distance. He tries to hide but I clearly see him. I chuckle to myself and she asks me what? I tell her nothing, give her a hug and put her in a cab.

Afterwards, I ask the younger brother what he was doing outside and he tries to deny being outside. I grill him and he eventually admits his older brother Ian sent him to watch us. Lol.

Now my question is this, what do you think is the best way to proceed. Do you think I should proceed with this girl or not? I'm going out with my friends tomorrow and she'll be there again. She's already texting me about how she can't wait to see me again.

 

[JohnChops]

I wont lie, i've crossed that line with one of my best friends, still a good friend today. I regret ever getting involved with her. As stated above, no girl is worth possibly losing a good friend over.

Not to mention she was BPD as hell, so you never kn ow what you're going to fall into with girls.

 

[Glassguy]

I say go for it as long as you have real interest in her and she isn't going to be a pump and dump. If he is that good of a friend, he should be ok with it.

If you just want to fvck her and drop her, don't do it.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I went with my mate's sister when we were in our teens. It doesn't matter so much at that age. No harm done. We're still pretty close. If you're a bit older, it gets more complicated.

If you and her are reading from the same page, go for it. If you're agendas are misaligned and there's danger of her getting hurt, don't bother. All else considered, if in doubt, put yourself in the other guy's shoes.

 

[jaymbrs]

Sucks being in your situation. Especially if she's hot. But like everyone else has stated, if Ian is a close friend, you should leave the situation alone. Based on your story though, I bet she'll escalate and you're going to have your hands full.

 

[logicallefty]

I’m with the others. If he is one of your best friends, the kind who would give u the shirt off his back, then I wouldn’t touch the chick. But if he is anything other than that, heck ya let her hang all over you tomorrow and get all nice and wet. Then get her alone somewhere and make the kiss close.

 

[El Payaso]

I decided not to go on with it. Too many fishes in the sea to destroy a friendship over. It's easy to get a woman but hard to get a friend.

 

[Masculinity]

I decided not to go on with it. Too many fishes in the sea to destroy a friendship over. It's easy to get a woman but hard to get a friend.

Good choice.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I decided not to go on with it. Too many fishes in the sea to destroy a friendship over. It's easy to get a woman but hard to get a friend.

Did you at least ask him what his problem is? Are you not insulted? I would be. He thinks you are good enough to be his friend but not good enough to fvck his slvtty sister.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Did you at least ask him what his problem is? Are you not insulted? I would be. He thinks you are good enough to be his friend but not good enough to fvck his slvtty sister.

Yeah I mean I'm all for friendship and all, but I wonder if said friend would do the same for me? Or if they would give up friendship with me for some pvssy. I think that he was being a little bit too jealous over his sister too so yeah....

 

[marmel75]

So apparently she isn't able to make adult decisions for herself?

I'd probably ask him what the problem was, is he her pimp or something?

I never understood situations like this.