"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tonystoneNYC

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whats poppin I'm new here


Anyway this chick I use to deal with a couple years back calls me all of sudden with some nonsense about how much she misses me or whatever so I tell her I'm busy I'll call her back later so she's like whatever and just hangs up. So I call her back in like 2 hours and I'm trying to see whats really good with this chick and now she flippin the script on me and tells me she'll call me back so I'm like aight later. After that a blocked number calls my cell phone and its some dude talking about I'm calling on behalf of this girl and i'm like yo son who you wanna speak to, who is this and then she comes on like you know who this is and I'm like word she gets her man to call me with a blocked number talking **** like I"m a little kid or something. So I tell homeboy not to call my phone because if I'm not mistaken his girl is trying to reinsert my joint into her mouth namean. And I hung up. And now ever since then i've been getting random phone calls and quick hang ups every time i pick up and its wild that they acting like some lil dirtbags over pointless ****. I know homeboy live close to my college to so I need some advice on should I go introduce myself and risk getting kicked out of school or just deal with this kiddie nonsense. Appreciate the help fellas. 1.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tonystoneNYC

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I hear you I'm trying to get away from the nonsense thats surrounds me.
 

Sir Space

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Just dont answer the phone if its a blocked number. ***** sounds crazy...
 

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If that is her or her man calling and hanging up, than thery're being childish and emotional. dont even pay attention to that ****. just block the phone # let him go through his little ***** fit, and go about your own bizz.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you Next her. she is done.. so dont up up with her **** just ignore it. its not your problem. if you ignore it will stop, only by answering it will you fuel the bull****.


Just pretend like nothing happened, if the guy starts **** just tell him you dont want to be dragged into this and go on your own way. If he goes ****ing crazy and overreacts then you got a whole new problem. Dont make it your problem, if he does, then kick his *****y ass cause he's a little imature boy.
 
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