"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theunflushables

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slickaz said:
THEUNFLUSHABLES: HAHAHAHHA!! i like the way you think..hmmmm...essentially thatd mean i was a pimp?! lol..im just kiddin..yeh i think i should talk to her about toning down her spending..she really spends ALOT.the crib, that big and flashy or the car, neither is really needed. i dunno.i dont usually get involved in a chics bizness unless its affecting me or shes wifey material. what if she backfires like "umm why are you interested in my finances!" although i cant see her saying that but still.lol.
Nah, that doesn't make you a pimp, you're not selling her. Instead you'd be part of that special group of people that seems to get a bad rap "the opportunist".

Seriously though, you have a decent amount of capital that could be put to use to help make you both better off.

If she asks why you are intersted in her finances. Tell her you want to make sure she is financially set in the future. You're not promising you'll still be there, but she'll love the fact that you're interested in her financial well being, and so will you. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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