"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slickaz said:
THEUNFLUSHABLES: HAHAHAHHA!! i like the way you think..hmmmm...essentially thatd mean i was a pimp?! lol..im just kiddin..yeh i think i should talk to her about toning down her spending..she really spends ALOT.the crib, that big and flashy or the car, neither is really needed. i dunno.i dont usually get involved in a chics bizness unless its affecting me or shes wifey material. what if she backfires like "umm why are you interested in my finances!" although i cant see her saying that but still.lol.
Nah, that doesn't make you a pimp, you're not selling her. Instead you'd be part of that special group of people that seems to get a bad rap "the opportunist".

Seriously though, you have a decent amount of capital that could be put to use to help make you both better off.

If she asks why you are intersted in her finances. Tell her you want to make sure she is financially set in the future. You're not promising you'll still be there, but she'll love the fact that you're interested in her financial well being, and so will you. :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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