"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Funny Questions and conversation starters help

MyOwnKryptonite

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What are some funny questions to ask?

What are some good conversation starters or things to talk about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MyOwnKryptonite

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No one has any good conversation starters? Or mid conversation conversation pieces? I find it hard to believe that none of you don juaners dont have anything
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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The only conversational topics I use are spontaneous, situational ones. In other words, I choose to be a human being interacting with the environment instead of a social robot programmed with canned lines amd openers. This philosophy ties in with the fact that I am strongly against "techniques", because you lose your identity as an individual.

Do you want someone/something pushing you from behind on the bicycle for the rest of your life, or do you want to ride on your own?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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