"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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funny question for all the no fappers...

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Ok so u know that one day you will not be able to fap because u will be too old to be able to. I read how if u got sperm build up it forces u to go make shyt happens and score. Ok....if u develop ur skills when u can hook up without all the sperm buildup, that point is out the window.

How about this....if the world was about to end, what did no fapping get you. And, u never really know when ur world is about to end.
Not saying to fap till u bleed, but ....lol like I said, all the hard core anti fap dudes are welcome to reply.

But Damn it life is too short to not scratch ur itch, say good afternoon to the cutie, playfully slap a boob, jokingly poke fun at a girl, and for Damn sure life is too short to not attempt a kiss if ur body is feeling it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im not a hardcore no fapper, just hitting my 1 week mark tomorrow. I originally started cause I would do it every night, one day I will probably go back to fapping (its inevitable haha) but only every few days or so.

I'm still not an expert at approaching and getting with girls as I think I need more experience and I get approach anxiety I guess so its been helping me with that either psychologically or physiologically, but I've noticed my small talk is much better and im more confident.

Its not only that but for me if you can RESIST men's natural temptation to gap, then its really a test of your own willpower. I feel like if I can conquer this, I can conquer anything....in a sense.
 

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I expect to be fapping during the coming zombie apocalypse.
 
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Its not even about fapping as much as it is about the dopamine that's generated from PORN specifically and its negative stimulating effects on your brain. Fapping is natural but arousal addiction can arise with constant exposure and reliance on porn. Its when it becomes a problem that people need to stop really, like if you can only get hard to porn for example. Or if you can't jerk off without it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quit the p0rn. But still find time for some "alone time" if you know what I mean. Visualize a girl you've banged in the past or that you'd like to in the future.
 

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What the last two posters said. No porn is sensible, no fap is ridiculous
 

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JoeMarron said:
What the last two posters said. No porn is sensible, no fap is ridiculous
Ya there's just too much energy in the body if u don't bust a nut and you will find yourself getting aggressive or some **** if u don't release the tension every now and then.

BTW I have learned the so-called art of the non-ejaculatory orgasm.

Some of you guys must know Mantak Chia.

According to the taoist sages you can circulate your chi through own own microcosmic orbit and by practicing this non-ejaculatory orgasm it can go straight up into your brain.

I've experienced it a few times, but at the time I was practicing it regularly and my d*ck became strong as a bull's d*ck... or c0ck!

It's pretty nice TBH, but sometimes it's really better to just explode your nut all over the place and have that sense of exhaustion.


Also, concerning porn, just watch the brazilian sh*t that's the best!:up:
 

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I have to fap at least once every 1/2 weeks, or else i become so agressive i worry i'll kill someone someday..
 

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GS750 said:
Quit the p0rn. But still find time for some "alone time" if you know what I mean. Visualize a girl you've banged in the past or that you'd like to in the future.
Porn is the reason for all the psychological issues. No fap was originally no porn but you could fap. Then some people decided to try not ejaculating at all. I personally believe jerking it is fine but porn really fvcks with me. As in can't get hard with a girl, that's the worst.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Atom Smasher said:
I expect to be fapping during the coming zombie apocalypse.
Careful, you might become a zombie fapper. That zombie in the background that is always fapping. Zombies are also known for having their parts fall off, so that could be a problem also.
 

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JohnChops said:
Porn is the reason for all the psychological issues. No fap was originally no porn but you could fap. Then some people decided to try not ejaculating at all. I personally believe jerking it is fine but porn really fvcks with me. As in can't get hard with a girl, that's the worst.
Had the same issue. I decided to stop for good when I took a look back to when I was 12-13 and I discovered porn. I realized it had really had a negative impact on me socially. I'm going on 6 months and don't intend to ever watch porn again. :up: That's the biggest hurdle IMO, you have to be okay with the idea that you will never watch porn again.
 

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I actually find it hard to believe anyone could struggle to get it up when trying to have sex with a girl, hell im hard as a rock when I merely maintain eye contact with a girl I like.
 

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Well it may have had to do more with anxiety than anything, but I decided that the p0rn viewing certainly wasn't helping.
 

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zekko said:
Careful, you might become a zombie fapper. That zombie in the background that is always fapping. Zombies are also known for having their parts fall off, so that could be a problem also.
At least I'll be in the back so when it falls off it won't impede the forward momentum of the unruly zombie horde.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This thread is hilarious. Especially the poorly written OP. What a trainwreck.
 
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