"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Funny instance in the club.

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A few weeks ago I went to this club and put some crazy good game down (and the night ended with success). Straight to the point though, I danced with this one chick and I was trying to make 'progress'. She was dancin on the stage herself (bunch of people on stage and on the floor). I got bold and pulled her off the stage and asking for a dance. Mind you, she jumped off the stage and started riding me. I'm like damn she a freak. Then I let her down and we dance for 2 songs straight. Anyway, I attempt to make progress by moving up her shirt for her titties (Slow, not too savage like). For a while shes coo with it then she pushes my hands down. From what I remember I think I try again and then she ends the dance and runs back on stage deep in the crowd (anti slut factor kicked in possibly).


Anyway, I see her at this club I went to Thursday night and ask for a dance. She quickly is like 'Noooo' backing up. I'm like 'Why not?' and she says 'I remember you!'. I'm like 'How?' (acting dumb), and she's like 'You were grabbing on my titties!'. Mind you we are both smiling throughout the short convo so she didn't seem pissed. Therefore I didn't get pissed or anything and just laughed it off.

So now I'm wondering, is it bad to try and make that kind of progress on a chick on the dance floor? I only do it sometimes and some chicks are kinda cool about it. I just don't want to leave a lasting bad impression (IE. them avoiding me in the future)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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faiNt`

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Bigg Boss said:
A few weeks ago I went to this club and put some crazy good game down (and the night ended with success). Straight to the point though, I danced with this one chick and I was trying to make 'progress'. She was dancin on the stage herself (bunch of people on stage and on the floor). I got bold and pulled her off the stage and asking for a dance. Mind you, she jumped off the stage and started riding me. I'm like damn she a freak. Then I let her down and we dance for 2 songs straight. Anyway, I attempt to make progress by moving up her shirt for her titties (Slow, not too savage like). For a while shes coo with it then she pushes my hands down. From what I remember I think I try again and then she ends the dance and runs back on stage deep in the crowd (anti slut factor kicked in possibly).


Anyway, I see her at this club I went to Thursday night and ask for a dance. She quickly is like 'Noooo' backing up. I'm like 'Why not?' and she says 'I remember you!'. I'm like 'How?' (acting dumb), and she's like 'You were grabbing on my titties!'. Mind you we are both smiling throughout the short convo so she didn't seem pissed. Therefore I didn't get pissed or anything and just laughed it off.

So now I'm wondering, is it bad to try and make that kind of progress on a chick on the dance floor? I only do it sometimes and some chicks are kinda cool about it. I just don't want to leave a lasting bad impression (IE. them avoiding me in the future)
"You know you liked it."

"You let me."

"Sorry I can't help it, they are nicceeee."

"I'll do it again if you want."

Pick one and use it next time :up:
 

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faiNt` said:
"You know you liked it."

"You let me."


"Sorry I can't help it, they are nicceeee."

"I'll do it again if you want."

Pick one and use it next time :up:
There we go
 

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I definiately would say you should have used something along the lines of what "Faint said as a comeback. Then after what probably would have been a brief laugh, introduce yourself and strike up a conversation, as soon as the conversation comes to a close, ask her up to the bar to get a drink with you(I don't mean pay for hers, I just mean have her accompany you). Then after a brief C+F convo there, when the next good song comes on, grab her hand and say that we have to dance to this song, and lead her back onto the dance floor but in the corner or a more secluded spot. Sense her vibe and attitude from there and play it by ear(or should I say play it by actions :D ) Then if all is going find a way to get her back to her place or at least number close.

The fact that she remembered you means you left an impression obviously and a big one at that. If she was truely scared of you or afraid then she would have just said no and refused to talk to you with no smiling. So I not saying you definiately missed out, but there could have been more to this if you played your cards right. But thats just my opinion.
 
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