Funny Incident, But Sad

[BramhaBull60]

I thougth this might perk people up who have a hang up on their looks not getting women:

In my office, there are about five or six women who rank from 7-10s. Now I am always in the office, and hear their BS( which is more useful than the bootcamp to learn DJing skills because you see just how nuts they really are) and recently they all drooled over this guy who works down the hall. So they talked to him once, and he got all excited. The funny thing was he tried to ask one of the girls out to hang out with him tommorow morning. After coming off totally unconfident and fumbling his words, he then got super nervous, and asked out two of the other girls in the office, and then asked if I wanted to go lol After he left, even though they were saying how "nice" he was, this chump lost the respect of like four women in one sitting, and all I could was just laugh and feel sorry for the guy. I would have done the same thing before reading the posts on this site. It goes to show that dating is a numbers game and that only one strategy works: Confidence, Confidence, Confidence.

 

[sapphire]

I agree that confidence is very important but it is looks that gets the door open. I assume that the guy was good looking otherwise these chicks would not be drooling over him.

But to say that looks are not important as suggested in your post is not valid. Without looks this guy would probably have not been given the chance to ask those girls out in the first place.

 

[Maverick001]

BramhaBull60,

How is observing women and watching another guy crash and burn better than the Boot Camp here on sosuave?

"There's knowing the path and then there's walking it."

Unless you yourself have tried the Boot Camp, you only have an opinion based on a THEORETICAL frame of reference.

All of those who have completed and are currently engaged in the Boot Camp have posted what they've gained from the experience. They can't all be lying.

The same is true of those sosuavers, whose Boot Camps were derailed for one reason or another. They still benefitted according to their posts.

If you haven't done Boot Camp, try it. You might actually benefit too.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[BramhaBull60]

Maverick:

No, I said listening to the women in my office, and hearing their complaints on dating was as good as boot camp for learning just how women rate and date guys. Sorry if I didn't make that clear. And I have done the boot camp and its awesome. Ten times better than the people who make you pay for advice. I live by that and the DJ bibles, so I am not knocking it at all. I guess it would better to say that the comboniation of those two things have helped. I am always trying to learn. Watching the guy crash and burn was just an example of a guy who has to tone his skills. I felt bad. And I get get cruel pleasure out of watching someone who coasts on his looks get his come uppence.

And to awnser Maverick's question, of course looks help. But I would guess that like myself, some of the guys on this site are not blessed with that. So I was saying that just because your good looking, does not mean that you always score with women, and that confidence can overcome looks. A guy who has a combination of looks and confidence? That guy has the holy grail. lol And with that guy, he was great to them until he spoke. When he spoke, and it turned out he was a total wimp, he was done.

 

[Dukester]

check out the confidence threads i made. look in my sig.

 

[Maverick001]

BramhaBull60,

Ok, gotcha.

I just misunderstood some of your original post then...my bad.

Cheers,
Mav