"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Funny ****block that happened Friday

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alright wazzzuppp!! I'll introduce myself first i guess. I'm a junior in HS, and my social circle isnt huge but im pretty well known around the school, being an upperclassmen I guess. I'm not on any teams or in any clubs but I keep it cool with a lot of people, including teachers etc. this is my first post


sooo. I take the public bus home after school, and there is this girl and her friend who also takes it from time to time, the main girl who i have been gaming is a sophomore, really cute, sough after by most guys, AFCS too though I'm not completely attracted to her, usually I go overboard if i get really sprung

Ive been gaming her for about a month,pretty sure theres some sexual attraction , was confident about getting a # close after I had isolated her yesterday, mind you it was passing period, a couple of minutes before period 2 had started in the morning. I walked her to the girls locker room (she had gym), calmly stated, "hey you know MaraBella, the only time we ever get to talk really is on the bus, whats your #?" i forgot to joke or something to get her in a horny state pre-close but w/e

She smiles and blushes right away, accepts my phone and is juust opening the Contaccts....

when this other ni99a that knows both of us comes in, "WHOOOO SOMEONEZZ GETTIN' A NUMBAHH. hah damn!" and starts talking to us laughing....she looks at him pissed off, laughs embarrassed at me and says "....haa just for that bye!!" and runs off into the gym. I socked him and he aplozogizes saying he thought she was looking at my phone

it is a pretty funny story but of course, I'm thinking since it happened to me I'm like fuuuuuuuu-

Later that day he said he spoke to her and asked if she was still giving me her numero, she said yea as long as he wasnt there....idk he could be BSing but still damn
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eaglez1177

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Wow that kid is a fvcking tool I would be so pissed
 

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When I saw this I couldn't help but think about my old group of friends and how gay they were and why I left them over the course of the last 2 months...here are 2 incidences of proof that happened a while ago

#1
I'm in the hall talkin to this girl none of my friends know and I'm getting her number. As she's putting mine in her phone, my fag ex-friend comes up and says my last 4 digits after i say the first three. then he CLEARLY tries to butt into the conversation and sh1t but thankfully I knew to ignore him and not let him steal attention.

#2
Again I'm in the hall talking to this other girl. I was having her write her number on a sheet of paper and right as she was about to this other mother fwcker who used to be my friend walked by and shouted, "He won't stop calling you!" I was speechless, not knowing how gay he was. The girl laughs and goes, "Yeah I'm not gonna put down my number." I never talked to her again. F both of them
 

shaunuk

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Fvck it, don't worry, she was just embarassed about someone noticing she was giving her number out. You'll get her number next time you see her on the bus. That guy probably wasn't trying to ruin your chances really. . .just making a joke out of it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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most people who hate on you do it because they are jelous about you.... people are always gonna do this....just gotta try and avoid these people... but at school age most people are still very immature...it gets better as you age (although there are always tools and haters around)
 
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shaunuk said:
Fvck it, don't worry, she was just embarassed about someone noticing she was giving her number out. You'll get her number next time you see her on the bus. That guy probably wasn't trying to ruin your chances really. . .just making a joke out of it.
Yea I was thinkin that...I'm thinkin next time I see her I'll just keep it cool and not even mention the incident, hopefully she bring it up and be like "sorry about that dumbass and what happened Friday,, so you still want my #?" or something. But if she doesnt say anything I guess I'll ask again

But yea. I'm been lurking this forum for a while now, but still I can't get over how cool everyone is. thanks for all the feedback :up:

sageproduct said:
When I saw this I couldn't help but think about my old group of friends and how gay they were and why I left them over the course of the last 2 months...here are 2 incidences of proof that happened a while ago

#1
I'm in the hall talkin to this girl none of my friends know and I'm getting her number. As she's putting mine in her phone, my fag ex-friend comes up and says my last 4 digits after i say the first three. then he CLEARLY tries to butt into the conversation and sh1t but thankfully I knew to ignore him and not let him steal attention.

#2
Again I'm in the hall talking to this other girl. I was having her write her number on a sheet of paper and right as she was about to this other mother fwcker who used to be my friend walked by and shouted, "He won't stop calling you!" I was speechless, not knowing how gay he was. The girl laughs and goes, "Yeah I'm not gonna put down my number." I never talked to her again. F both of them
These story had me laughing pretty hard =D
 

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Oh god...I would kill to be back in high school with what I know now. When guys do that you turn to them and say "Excuse me but I'm trying to talk to this lovely lady here and you're kind of interrupting" =) Nice way of showing you have some class but at the same time telling them to buzz the **** off!
 
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Yea i DEFINATELY shoulda done something like that.....I really wasnt expecting a ****block though. I mean one second we were laughing and I was giving her my phone, and the next I was holding my phone smiling at dead air going "wtf just happened"


@Carlito i agree with your HS comment!!
 
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