"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jerry Maguire

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The only things that I reasonably enjoy are film, driving and Halo 3 :((
I've tried playing the guitar, drawing, photography, football, gym, thai boxing but all are things which I feel I would need to be good at to get the most out of.
There's no fun in my life.
Help me out guys?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nexus Polaris

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So get good at them. I've been going out and shooting hoops for an hour every other morning for the last week. And I'm 5'7", so you can imagine how naturally lousy I am at basketball.

I've already got a pretty solid free throw now after just the first week. And I've lost like 2 lbs.

Just dedicate your mind and practice. Stuff gets more fun as you get better at it.
 
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