"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fun Things To Do

Bjon

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Hobbies, like everyone keeps saying, is probably the best way to spend your time. You get to do something you love, what more can you ask than that. Me and my friend want to get into the film industry, like start making movies and stuff. A few months ago we started coming up with story ideas and actually started writing one into a script. But we have lots of fun just sitting around throwing idea's back and forth. Like something will make us think of an awesome idea for a movie and we'll say it. Then we'll just keep elaborating and elaborating. We should write these idea's down, but i think the reason we don't is we usually never have paper or anything when we're talking about them. So go find something you love doing and just do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sniper2k

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What's really fun is living for the moment. Do what you enjoy and enjoy what you do. Don't be shy to try new things and take risks. ANYTHING can be fun and rewarding in some way, it's all how you look at it. But anyway:

Practice DJ skills relentlessly
Join a club/organization
Volunteer
Workout
Play sports you enjoy
educate your damn self

Most important is that you do what you love. Live with passion and you'll be immune to all the pain, embarassment, and discomfort you feel in life. Pimp on!
 
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