"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheEdgeOf

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Alright, before anyone asks, Yes, I did do a search, and No, I didn't find anything.

Basically, I need help guys, what are some fun things to do for a date-type thing. I mean REALLY fun stuff, what do you guys like to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bowling,pool,swimming,kart-racing,comedy-show

If she's not too barbie-ish: mountain-climbing,offroading,cycling(mountain or street),hiking(and stopping for something like a pick nick(sp?).

Anything that is not sitted interrogation(sp?) boredom and leaves room for kino.
 

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A Bar and lots of booze.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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supermarkets , take her grocery shopping
pinkberry,
eating at new hole in the wall restaurants

just do things you like to do
 

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Alright guys, here's what I've decided on, tell me what you think.

First, I wanna meet up with her at a park and just have fun chilling/ boating and a picnic. Then after it's starts get late, I wanna take her home and play ps2 game singstar (neither of us can sing so it should really be funny) and then finish the night off by watching a movie.

What do you think?
 

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is this a first date?
If this isa first date, its too much

First dates should be simplier, lots of girls love to cut you off like 2 hours in the date and say they got to go home or have a stomach ache, no idea wtf is going on but

you should do the picnic thing on the #2nd date

#1st dates should just to get 2know , not too much effort but work your personality
 

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Not really a first date, It's 'cause I'm in college so we see each other a lot. We haven't really gone out on a date yet, but we've just hung out before.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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