"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Fun things to do with GF
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Senior Don Juan
and come across the dove and say
"oh no.. thats so sad, a dead bird!!!"
"lets bring it back to life" ha ha ha
ive never actually done this, but i will, as soon as i find a dove.
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WTF? Try one of those pink lawn flamingos instead.
Going to the movies is BORING. Go feed ducks in the park, rollerskating, bowling, mini golf, build a snowman, go for a picnic, swimming, fishing, pool, toy store, build a bird house, plant a tree, go to a museum, zoo, board games.
There's so much more 5hit you can do instead of seeing a boring movie.
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Senior Don Juan
she would tell me she felt safe with me and thats why she liked cumming with me..
as the night slowly apraches, the sky is become a deep red,
i would set up cosy camp site with a fire, a few bottles of wine in my back pack, food marshmelows, and after we cought some food i would skin, feather and cook it for us,
she would tell her friends about all the different animals shes eaten, rabbit, squrrel, pigoen etc..
so we are by the fire, warm and cosy, beautyfull night, getting drunk while eating speacialy prepared wild animals, slowly the mood is becoming ripe and the romance is being created, not through any false settings, but the simple beauty of being in the outside world, the wilderness serviving purly on natrual instinks... nobody else, just the two of us..
that is something that cant be compensated for...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.