“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Fun "Suprises" to take girls on

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For some reason out of nowhere ive been telling girl I have surprises for them when we hang out, and its been working like a charm. But I have NO IDEA what surprises I should set up. I had a date tonight but I had to cancel for one, im sick two a i have a doctors appointment at 7 tonight. I told her ide make it up to her for canceling.

And dont tell me to whip out my d*ck when she steps through the door, cuz believe me I already thought of that one :D

Any one have any good idea I can use for a "surprise"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Myrrdin said:
Take her horse riding
Thats not a bad idea, if I had the money ide probably do that.

Keep em coming, im looking for a list so I can come back to this thread anytime im stuck.
 

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Once the snow in NY melts if you have a 4WD vehicle go mudding. Let her take the wheel for a bit. It's something most girls have never done and it's A LOT of fun for the both of you.
 

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if you can do magic tricks like barney stinson that'd be awesome. THere was this one episode he kept stealing all of his friend Marshall's chicks by doing magic.

but i live by some places with "INCREDIBLE" views. I live in this park neighborhood where its hook up, bj, and kiss town. Every other car everyday i get back from work has a couple in it. If there not in the cars, their on benchs or standing in this overhead terrace checking out the view of the city.

Jersey City, Hoboken, and Edgewater i can personally vouch for have spectacular views that can be used as surprises. It sucks that its cold out but i still see makeouts happening in my neighborhood.

I'm also getting my bike soon (hopefully). A bike ride would be a cool surprise while driving by a nice view. Not as nice as a coast view down California but still pretty nice.

Anyway, i don't think you should take the surprise seriously. I think the girl is probably more interested in the opportunity to see you again. If anything, sneak up behind her before you meet up for the date and go "Surprise! Hope you didn't hold your breath too long." Then if you really wanted to, later on in the date actually surprise her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AAAgent said:
if you can do magic tricks like barney stinson that'd be awesome. THere was this one episode he kept stealing all of his friend Marshall's chicks by doing magic.

but i live by some places with "INCREDIBLE" views. I live in this park neighborhood where its hook up, bj, and kiss town. Every other car everyday i get back from work has a couple in it. If there not in the cars, their on benchs or standing in this overhead terrace checking out the view of the city.

Jersey City, Hoboken, and Edgewater i can personally vouch for have spectacular views that can be used as surprises. It sucks that its cold out but i still see makeouts happening in my neighborhood.

I'm also getting my bike soon (hopefully). A bike ride would be a cool surprise while driving by a nice view. Not as nice as a coast view down California but still pretty nice.

Anyway, i don't think you should take the surprise seriously. I think the girl is probably more interested in the opportunity to see you again. If anything, sneak up behind her before you meet up for the date and go "Surprise! Hope you didn't hold your breath too long." Then if you really wanted to, later on in the date actually surprise her.
ha ha I like that idea. Got to find a good place for that to work out correctly
 

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Crissco said:
ha ha I like that idea. Got to find a good place for that to work out correctly
Off the top of my head...


A massage for two at a professional massage place is always good.

A pedicure together.

Trip to Vegas.

If you have one near where you live, take her to a casino.

Take her to a nice hotel in your city for a night. Just to get away and to pretend you are on your own little vacation. Have a great dinner. Some dancing. Some drinks. Sex back in the hotel. Makes a great little getaway.

Take her to a professional hockey or Bball game. Most girls have never been to one, but whenever I take one that has never been, they love it.
 

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I don't know about you, but I have a decent knowledge of alcohol. So have most of my serious girlfriends. So if it's someone I care enough about to surprise, maybe I'd come to her place with a couple nice bottles of booze and make some old fashioned ****tails. Authentic ingredients, etc.

Party like it's 1922.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
I don't know about you, but I have a decent knowledge of alcohol. So have most of my serious girlfriends. So if it's someone I care enough about to surprise, maybe I'd come to her place with a couple nice bottles of booze and make some old fashioned ****tails. Authentic ingredients, etc.

Party like it's 1922.
Hey help me out then. What are some good mixed drinks to make? Nothing to strong. I am not a wine drinker. I frankly am getting tired of the rum and cokes, vodka and red bulls, beer, etc. Want something different. Not to strong, can be fruity or not, doesn't matter.
 

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i've been a bartender before.

tequila sunrise, the drink literally looks like a sunrise and it tastes good too.
tequila orange juice and top it off with grenadine.

The incredible hulk is a cool named drink that looks cool and taste sweet.
i think it was hypnotiq and coke? the drink turns green when you mix it.

LIT is pretty good too. it actually taste like ice tea but that's a real popular one.
vodka, gin, tequila, rum, triple sec, sour mix, and top it off with coke.

I'm not exactly a real bartender but i got to work with the bartenders. I know how to make all the popular drinks etc.
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massage's sound cool but not for a second date?? but if your insisting send us some of that extra millions your making haha. Massages don't come cheap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm looking forward to someone I deem worthy of taking skydiving with me. "It's a surprise, just don't wear any loose-fitting clothes. Oh, you don't have any heart problems, do you?"

I surprised my last LTR by taking her out to shoot guns. The 30-06 scared the crap out of her, as it should. It's a beast. She got to watch me turn cinder blocks into dust at 300 yards.

Horseback riding is good, sailboating is good. Anything inventive is good.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Hey help me out then. What are some good mixed drinks to make? Nothing to strong. I am not a wine drinker. I frankly am getting tired of the rum and cokes, vodka and red bulls, beer, etc. Want something different. Not to strong, can be fruity or not, doesn't matter.
I'm a whiskey/bourbon drinker, so my tastes kind of lean towards that.

There are some classics like an Old Fashioned (the Donald Draper drink). All you need is a good bourbon, buy some bitters (I use Fee Brothers), orange zest (basically part of the peel), and a bit of sugar/simple syrup. Some people use those weird cherries....I don't.

A Dark and Stormy is a rum drink. Use a dark rum, ginger beer, and maybe a slice of lime.

My coworkers seem to like manhattans. But you've probably already heard of that.

There's also a whiskey sour. Not whiskey and sour mix. I mean a REAL whiskey sour. Which is something like whiskey, lemon juice, some kind of sugar, and egg whites. Yes egg whites.

In my city there are a couple of places that really respect the craft of drink-making. So depending on where you live, it may be hard to go to a bar and have a bartender really take the care to make a proper drink. Like the whiskey sour thing...95% of bars will just throw whiskey in a glass with sour mix. Sour mix is disgusting!
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I'm looking forward to someone I deem worthy of taking skydiving with me. "It's a surprise, just don't wear any loose-fitting clothes. Oh, you don't have any heart problems, do you?"

I surprised my last LTR by taking her out to shoot guns. The 30-06 scared the crap out of her, as it should. It's a beast. She got to watch me turn cinder blocks into dust at 300 yards.

Horseback riding is good, sailboating is good. Anything inventive is good.
I love that idea! I got a shooting range near me. Thanks bro!
 

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AAAgent said:
tequila sunrise, the drink literally looks like a sunrise and it tastes good too.
tequila orange juice and top it off with grenadine.
I went through a phase when I was drinking tequila sunrises many years ago.

The frigging bartenders here could NOT make on to save their lives. They would put too much grenadine in and the whole drink would turn red. It's supposed to linger around at the bottom and look like the sunrise, while the top of the drink stays orange.
I even started to say "go light on the grenadine" but I'd always get this totally red drink. If you want something done right, sometimes you've got to do it yourself.
 

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I want to keep this thread gonig, I can see it getting big


So far my fav are the basketball/baseball/hockey games, and the shooting range.

Even a comedy show/play would work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crissco said:
I want to keep this thread gonig, I can see it getting big


So far my fav are the basketball/baseball/hockey games, and the shooting range.

Even a comedy show/play would work.
You stated that you have no money. Maybe you should work on your body and get really big and sexy. Don't join an expensive gym. Just use what you have around you. In no time you will be hot and ready to go.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-jZmllnDv8
 

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allbeef said:
You stated that you have no money. Maybe you should work on your body and get really big and sexy. Don't join an expensive gym. Just use what you have around you. In no time you will be hot and ready to go.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-jZmllnDv8
You have no idea what I look like bro lol....In all honesty my body looks amazing.
 

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When it snows ... take her sledding. Bonus points if you get her to skip work or class.
 

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I was going to say something about "surprise anal" but I think someone else already got to it. Ha!

When the weather is nice, a picnic followed by kite flying works like a charm. You get to watch her run around and fail a lot while you drink wine on a hill.
 

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Whatever the surprise you have planned is, try doing it with texts for "clues" or an email with different "clues" she'll have to figure out a week beforehand. Maybe offer her tips to help with the clues to keep a lighthearted convo going every so often during the week before the surprise. This could also reduce the chance of flaking as it may peak the girls curiosity a bit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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