Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Fun Outside Date Ideas

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Cheiradawg

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This has probally been discussed but I couldn't find it so don't be a prick mods.



So there's this chick I've been having drinks with after work. She is in highschool and I'm 21. We basically hung out at the bar and chat but last friday she invited me back to her (and her parents house) to "watch a movie." We fooled around alittle nothing major. So there's the situation.

I asked to to get to get together on sunday afternoon and she said sure. She also said she wanted to do something outside and that's what I was think too.

So I was think we would take the family boat for a spin around the lake if it was warm enough but the boat is actually at the house in the mountains becuase we didn't bring it back last time we took it up there. Thats plan is shot.

Anyway to the question, what are some FUN outside date ideas that fit this situtation?

Then what are someback up ideas it is two cold?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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One of my favorite dates is to get in a couple of quick drinks, then head to the closest mini-golf course and play around. Don't take the game seriously, make up random competions, and have a good time ;)

You could also find some hiking/biking trails, go window shopping in the older parts of town (wherever there's strange and interesting mom & pop stores), head to the local park and acquisition the swings, take a drive to some nearby beach/small town/whatever, etc... once you get creative there are a ton of things to do outside.
 

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At the last mini-golf course, the rules I set were that she would kiss me every time she missed.... She missed a lot, I think it might have been intentionally :)

I helped "christen" her new place, I think I will make her do the same when I get my new car :D
 

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Originally posted by Cheiradawg
This has probally been discussed but I couldn't find it so don't be a prick mods.
Use the "Help" function to learn how to properly run a search. ;)

Here are a few articles from sosuave.com (google search for ' date ideas site:sosuave.com '... though that's a secret not many know):
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall168.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/17.htm

And here are the ones anyone could find:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=92175&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...id=92176&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
 
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