"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fun or Results?

happyendings

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I will keep this real short since Iam writing from my phone. Whats more important to you when you hit the clubs your fun or just go to **** some broad. Basically would you sacrifice having a good time just for some *****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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InnerHappiness

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Always fun, the attitude will attract everyone, including women. You will fail being outcome oriented - desperation
 

Purefilth

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Fun first, anything else is bonus. I dont go out to clubs often anymore, but when I do, its with my mates, and its all about having fun. This may be because my club game isnt great, but i dont focus on it anyway, around here its harder to do club game than day game so i forget about it for the night, and enjoy myself.
 
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