"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There's ways around it. For example, ask if you can grab their chest and take your d1ck out before money is exchanged.

If they come inside your house, they're definitely not a cop.
I agree on the coming into your house meaning they are not a cop, but that is because of concerns about officer safety. An officer certainly may enter your home as an undercover when granted permission under a false pretense, though, at least in the eyes of the law.

Another cop-test I have read is to ask a girl if she will pose nude for pics for money. No female undercover is going to agree.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Backpage deleted escorts but now they put it on the dating section (i.e. women meeting men). I just went on the Orlando site and there are a tonne of pics on there, and from what you said, that is not a free dating service.

This is how the world has become. I hope other dating sites do not follow that trend because that would mean everyone posting on a dating site is a prostitute and you have no legit women.

For enforcement don't you have an excuse because you could say you met the lady on a "dating" site on backpage and thought it was a date. You don't normally discuss sexual stuff by text and you don't have to actually talk much to the escort. There is no room to get charged.

Anyway, I saw the list of escorts you claim you dealt with. It looks like you are going after college aged Latina women in the area? Maybe a couple of Asians? There is a real visual feast if you go on the actual site because each escort may post up to four or five photos. I thought the USA backpage scene was dead since they banned that part of backpage. Now I can go to any location in the USA and mind-fvck any locally working escorts in any jurisdiction. They infiltrated the dating section. LE is not serious about enforcing against a majority white man's hobby.
 
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Backpage deleted escorts but now they put it on the dating section (i.e. women meeting men). I just went on the Orlando site and there are a tonne of pics on there, and from what you said, that is not a free dating service.

This is how the world has become. I hope other dating sites do not follow that trend because that would mean everyone posting on a dating site is a prostitute and you have no legit women.

For enforcement don't you have an excuse because you could say you met the lady on a "dating" site on backpage and thought it was a date. You don't normally discuss sexual stuff by text and you don't have to actually talk much to the escort. There is no room to get charged.

Anyway, I saw the list of escorts you claim you dealt with. It looks like you are going after college aged Latina women in the area? Maybe a couple of Asians? There is a real visual feast if you go on the actual site because each escort may post up to four or five photos. I thought the USA backpage scene was dead since they banned that part of backpage. Now I can go to any location in the USA and mind-fvck any locally working escorts in any jurisdiction. They infiltrated the dating section. LE is not serious about enforcing against a majority white man's hobby.
Yea I guess I mostly call Latinas. I never thought too much into it, I just find them the hottest, I guess.

Usually, over text, you use words like "donation" and "roses" to refer to money. Then when I get there, I just lay it on the table like it's nothing. I don't speak a word about it, like it's invisible.
 
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