“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Fun on Seeking Arrangement

Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
Now I know it's not exactly an accomplishment to get with a girl from SA, but a few weeks ago, I was talking to this girl...

https://www.dropbox.com/s/x9qvfnil2wxg0wl/14614.3gp?dl=0

Super hot. I have face and other pics, but I'm not gonna post them. She looks even better in person. Profile said 21, she told me she was 20 when she came over.

We had talked for about a week before we both had time to meet. She told me she had been with just 4 guys in her life, 1 of them from SA. I told her I was looking for someone who was good at deepthroating. She said she'd only done it a few times and might need some practice. I told her she could practice on me.

She came over, and...

She didn't need any practice. I was blown away by how she could take the whole thing in even while gargling, etc. The **** was so slimy with all those saliva bubbles just as good as the best porno you've ever seen. One time she looked up at me smiling with tears running down her eyes.

We did this on my couch in the living room. Started with her on her knees. Then, I had her lay upside down on my couch with her feet on the wall and head hanging over the front cushions. I was on my knees fvcking her mouth/throat. She took it like a champ, only having to push me off a few times. She had to take a little break, and she said...

Her: How old are you?
Me: 30
Her: So you're 30, you live alone, and you don't have a girlfriend? What's wrong with you?
Me: Idk. I'm just having fun.
Her: Too much fun?

Then we started fvcking a few minutes later. She warned me her pu$$y was really tight. I put it in, but I didn't feel it as any different than any other. After fvcking her for about 20 seconds, she looked at me and said...

"You are SOO good."

Which I already knew, but it's always good to hear. I honestly think that my sexual abilities should move me up the "SMV" scale (if such a thing actually exists) at least 2-5 points.

I have a bionic d1ck and I fvck really hard. Even the Backpage hookers I fvck sometimes say "wow, you're strong"

So eventually she just wanted me to *** cause I was lasting for too long. So I did. In her mouth.

:)

Oh yea. While she was deepthroating me, I told her she was really good and she said... "I bet you say that to all the girls."
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
How much did it cost?
$600. Plus I gave her a $100 tip cause I felt she earned it. One thing that stuck out is something @Amante Silvestre said once is that with all the hot hookers I've been with, I'm not intimidated by a hot body. That's correct. When this SA girl came over, it was business as usual.

I just got done fvcking a hot Brazilian Backpage escort 30 minutes ago. Haha. $160, which is more than usual. Swear I'm addicted to it.
 

Epicurus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 20, 2017
Messages
230
Reaction score
253
Now I know it's not exactly an accomplishment to get with a girl from SA, but a few weeks ago, I was talking to this girl...

https://www.dropbox.com/s/x9qvfnil2wxg0wl/14614.3gp?dl=0

Super hot. I have face and other pics, but I'm not gonna post them. She looks even better in person. Profile said 21, she told me she was 20 when she came over.

We had talked for about a week before we both had time to meet. She told me she had been with just 4 guys in her life, 1 of them from SA. I told her I was looking for someone who was good at deepthroating. She said she'd only done it a few times and might need some practice. I told her she could practice on me.

She came over, and...

She didn't need any practice. I was blown away by how she could take the whole thing in even while gargling, etc. The **** was so slimy with all those saliva bubbles just as good as the best porno you've ever seen. One time she looked up at me smiling with tears running down her eyes.

We did this on my couch in the living room. Started with her on her knees. Then, I had her lay upside down on my couch with her feet on the wall and head hanging over the front cushions. I was on my knees fvcking her mouth/throat. She took it like a champ, only having to push me off a few times. She had to take a little break, and she said...

Her: How old are you?
Me: 30
Her: So you're 30, you live alone, and you don't have a girlfriend? What's wrong with you?
Me: Idk. I'm just having fun.
Her: Too much fun?

Then we started fvcking a few minutes later. She warned me her pu$$y was really tight. I put it in, but I didn't feel it as any different than any other. After fvcking her for about 20 seconds, she looked at me and said...

"You are SOO good."

Which I already knew, but it's always good to hear. I honestly think that my sexual abilities should move me up the "SMV" scale (if such a thing actually exists) at least 2-5 points.

I have a bionic d1ck and I fvck really hard. Even the Backpage hookers I fvck sometimes say "wow, you're strong"

So eventually she just wanted me to *** cause I was lasting for too long. So I did. In her mouth.

:)

Oh yea. While she was deepthroating me, I told her she was really good and she said... "I bet you say that to all the girls."
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOwtfisthisOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,291
Reaction score
3,991
$600. Plus I gave her a $100 tip cause I felt she earned it. One thing that stuck out is something @Amante Silvestre said once is that with all the hot hookers I've been with, I'm not intimidated by a hot body. That's correct. When this SA girl came over, it was business as usual.

I just got done fvcking a hot Brazilian Backpage escort 30 minutes ago. Haha. $160, which is more than usual. Swear I'm addicted to it.
There is less traffic if the price is higher, isn't that better on your mind knowing that it's less likely she slept with 10 other guys before you if the price was lower? If you could go with $ 300 or more then she may be less public right? Do you find that you feel far from God with this type of lifestyle?
 
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
There is less traffic if the price is higher, isn't that better on your mind knowing that it's less likely she slept with 10 other guys before you if the price was lower? If you could go with $ 300 or more then she may be less public right? Do you find that you feel far from God with this type of lifestyle?
I don't believe in God.

And I don't know any other way to fvck hot girls all the time.

Honestly, I don't even plan it out. Usually, I'm just sitting home bored and I just decide to see one.
 

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,789
Reaction score
8,860
Age
49
The guy pays for a hooker, which ANYONE can do, and all of a sudden he is the ultimate ladies man lmao.

It proves nothing with game. Once you pay them, its game over. Its all an act.
 

MoreThanSmooth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
1,019
Reaction score
791
Age
35
Well it's a fun story but I'm not sure it even "counts" if you're giving away cash. I'm more interested in knowing how you get rich enough to have $600 to blow (pun intended) casually like that.

Clearly I need to get a higher paying gig...though I'll keep my female endeavours free and probably spend the extra cash on steak or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Glassguy

Moderator
Joined
Apr 25, 2016
Messages
4,789
Reaction score
8,860
Age
49
You must have not read the first sentence of the post.
Then stop bragging about it. There is nothing there to brag about. If I wanted a hooker, I could pull $600 out of my wallet at any time. So what?

I have good looks, an outgoing personality and I dont need to resort to it.
 

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,291
Reaction score
3,991
I don't believe in God.
That would mean far then. Does this non-belief in God enable you in this particular lifestyle since it would take your moral compass off and therefore offer a degree of comfort since there are no moral boundaries? I mean you probably have ethical boundaries, most atheists do, but moral ones deal with right and wrong from the stand-point of the individual to God. It's my belief that if God was real to you that you would will likely end this addiction fast.

RichardtheFrog said:
And I don't know any other way to fvck hot girls all the time.
Tell me one thing. If you do it mentally it's not the same thing. Lets say you went on backpage and masturbated at the pics of the escort instead and imagined the encounters then you WILL NOT be really doing anything. What do you think about that? I want to take an atheist perspective on this to see if on an intuitive level you can see a connection between thoughts and behaviour. You understand, lusting and masturbating at escorts, is not really seeing them? Or is it on some level?

RichardtheFrog said:
Honestly, I don't even plan it out. Usually, I'm just sitting home bored and I just decide to see one.
In looking at mental process, I can't predict when I may go on backpage and look at escort pics. I try not to do it because I know it's wrong. Some times I went on was when looking at the start of a boring movie, but after I did that, I was okay watching the rest of the movie. Usually after 7 days have passed then I may want to look again. Not interested in any other type of porn. What is your frequency of seeing escorts?

The question is this a porn issue, or is this a heart-level escort problem. If it's the latter then it sounds crazy because I have absolutely no intentions of seeing any escort and won't even text or communicate with one. I'd be inclined to think of it as porn rather than some virtual imaginary encounter, but if it's the latter then I'd have to stop that 100% because its too dangerous with me.
 

MoreThanSmooth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Messages
1,019
Reaction score
791
Age
35
That would mean far then. Does this non-belief in God enable you in this particular lifestyle since it would take your moral compass off and therefore offer a degree of comfort since there are no moral boundaries? I mean you probably have ethical boundaries, most atheists do, but moral ones deal with right and wrong from the stand-point of the individual to God. It's my belief that if God was real to you that you would will likely end this addiction fast.
I'm agnostic, very similar to an atheist really because I'm a sceptic in organised belief. And regardless I still think prostitution is often ethically sketchy and something I wouldn't do personally. While it's classically a religious thing to be against using prostitutes, I think morality is quite separate from religion and more akin to your upbringing and personality.

Some really religious dudes use coke and prostitutes (like that disgraced pastor), some atheists are serial killers. Same goes for the opposite, some people are just morally good no matter their religion.

It's an ethical minefield anyway - using someone who is a sex slave is obviously morally reprehensible, but many girls willingly go into that life and are happy with it.

Ethics complications aside, I think as @Glassguy says, paying for sex is kind of antithetical to being a DJ at a fundamental level.

You can argue we all "pay" for sex, with affection and dates etc but I'd argue that's different to just whipping your wallet out. I'm getting something back from the dates myself too (fun, companionship). And she's sleeping with me because she sees me as The Man. Not as a wallet.
 
Last edited:
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
I've never resorted to prostitution and don't really see the value in one-off sex in general(rarely that good although there are exceptions). I also don't like being around crazy damaged women, it is a libido killer for me because of my past experiences.

Having said that, with the amount of value and effort it would take to sleep with a girl that hot even once...hey $600 sounds cheap.
Especially having her deepthroat and all that.
 
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
That is standard issue at this point.

But I'll tell you, I've probably spent $500,000 on self improvement (career, looks, body, going out) and I've slept with a girl that hot only once, and the sex wasn't better than what you described.
I've been with many that off Backpage. I'll post pictures soon.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,291
Reaction score
3,991
I'm agnostic, very similar to an atheist really because I'm a sceptic in organised belief. And regardless I still think prostitution is often ethically sketchy and something I wouldn't do personally. While it's classically a religious thing to be against using prostitutes, I think morality is quite separate from religion and more akin to your upbringing and personality.

Some really religious dudes use coke and prostitutes (like that disgraced pastor), some atheists are serial killers. Same goes for the opposite, some people are just morally good no matter their religion.
You are talking about Jimmy Swaggart. He's repented of that. Anyone can make a mistake once in their life. I've read his work and he's straight with the Lord.

When you say use coke and prostitutes -- you have to mean like how RichardtheFrog is doing it, like he doesn't care and it's like nothing, rather than a one-off.

LessThanSmooth said:
It's an ethical minefield anyway - using someone who is a sex slave is obviously morally reprehensible, but many girls willingly go into that life and are happy with it.
Are they a sex slave? My encounter with an escort seems more consistent with casual sex in general. The aspect of being intimate with someone that you do not know who is also being intimate with other guys is disgusting. I think any casual sex would also be disgusting and any participant is a slave to their own lusts.

LessThanSmooth said:
Ethics complications aside, I think as @Glassguy says, paying for sex is kind of antithetical to being a DJ at a fundamental level.
But DJs still may believe in casual sex with is also just as wrong. I mean whether it is free or not doesn't really matter because you are still dealing with strangers and she is not loyal with you. If there was something disturbing to me about the encounter with that escort, and that being unwanted flashbacks of the encounter of a stranger sucking a private while I'm kissing her behind or that I'm grabbing her behind very hard while pulling her whole body back and forth, then I don't see how that disturbance would be relevant as to whether money exchanged hands prior to that or not. It's still unsettling and disturbing.

LessThanSmooth said:
You can argue we all "pay" for sex, with affection and dates etc but I'd argue that's different to just whipping your wallet out. I'm getting something back from the dates myself too (fun, companionship). And she's sleeping with me because she sees me as The Man. Not as a wallet.
So why isn't RichardtheFrog or myself (in the past) seeing it that way. Honestly, I forgot about 1 minute into the encounter that I even paid for it, once she took her clothes off. There was already too much shock at seeing a live nude woman in the same room as myself to even think about money at that point. Time just stands still and gets compressed. You feel like the man because she is siting on your lap or you are dancing with her naked to her Spanish folk music and you are smelling her and kissing her and she's letting you do it.

All this is based on a past encounter that occurred 4 years ago. The after-effect was in my system for about a year afterwards. Now it doesn't bother me anymore. Even when I write about it, it's like I'm writing about some detached story rather than an actual memory. Have you been with an escort before so you have a baseline contrast between a free and paid encounter?
 
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA

corrector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2009
Messages
10,291
Reaction score
3,991

This lady thinks that prostitution is a sh1tty degrading job that 99% of the time doesn't end well.
 

17 shots

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2016
Messages
1,106
Reaction score
1,018
Do u ever worry about getting caught up in some police sting or something
 
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,807
Reaction score
851
Location
Florida, USA
Do u ever worry about getting caught up in some police sting or something
There's ways around it. For example, ask if you can grab their chest and take your d1ck out before money is exchanged.

If they come inside your house, they're definitely not a cop.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top