"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fun Kiss Close

ZouWeiShangJi

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Went out to a club with some buds last night to try and kill this case of oneitis that I can feel lurking just over the horizon, and I thought I'd share this kiss close (actually this post is misnamed, wasn't really a close it was only halfway through the night).

I snag a girl with a really lame 'hey where are you from' opener (not my finest, but pretty sure it was the smile and breaking up her and her girl-friend's dancing that clinched the approach). So after dancing for a little bit this girl and I are resting, she's on her stool, I'm standing in front of her, and no conversation, just heavy eye contact and I know it's the moment. So I lean in for the kiss, but she does the shy away thing and 'no, no, no'. She points at her cheek, like telling me that's all I can get. So I smile and kiss her there and she smiles, but then I point at the same spot on my face and she smiles even wider and then gives it to me. Then she points at herself again, I giver her another peck and when it's my turn I start point at different places and she keeps reciprocating. So we go for a couple rounds, cheeks, forehead, nose, throat, ears, etc, and then on one of my turns I 'miss', hit her lips, and we start going at it.

Don't know if any of that was necessary, we probably would have end up making out anyway, but I actually thought it was pretty fun. MAVEC the whole time too, actually was the first time i ever felt like my eye contact was a force unto itself. haha as if I were merely peripheral.

but you guys think that this was just one of those 'moment' techniques or is it a potential add to my inventory of moves?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Uhh... it's odd... but hey, whatever works for you, buddy. :D
 

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Here's a kiss move for you.

Whenever going in for the kiss, IF she turns, keep on going in. Kiss the cheek and work your way down the neck. Then continue gaming like nothing happened. Wash winse repeat and you'll eventually have her so hot n horny she'll be putting her tongue down your throat.

But yeah, nice improvisation on the kiss move. Other guys would have wussed out thinking negative thoughts "Oh she doesn't want me to kiss her!" You kept your cool and continued to escalate.
 

quest

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Originally posted by Keeper
Uhh... it's odd... but hey, whatever works for you, buddy. :D
ignore this fool. ZWSJ.

Great move.

You made it through a block.

and thats definently something that increases you one notch in comparison with every other guy she's been with..

be hard to replicate with outher girls, and could look pre planned in future. but situational awesome move.

thats something the textbooks can't teach, and only time in the field can. -congrats.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The important thing here is that you didnt go to pieces when you got knocked back or apologise, like some guys would. You took it in good fun and showed confidence.
 
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