fun girls or smart girls

[francheezy]

Hey everyone
this is Pancho84 for those that might remember, I lost my login info and bla bla bla oh well
Anyhow so I'm at crossroads - sortoff.
Im young(20), accomplished(tri lingual, finishing my bachelors within 3 months) and busy(very busy with stuff)
obviously not much time to spare, let alone waste. This has put me in a funny position - I want to go out with girls and get to know someone more seriously, but I cant decide if I should go for girls that I think are actually worth my time although they might not be "as fun" , or to go for girls that are simply fun but I know chances are wont lead to anything serious. What do you guys think?
And I'm actually at crossroads as we speak, a coffee shop I frequent there are two girls obviously intersted in me - one is more conservative and shes in med-school so shes smart bla bla bla and I would say a 7.5 or so. The other one seems more fun, shes brazilian, but is more of the party kind. On the other hand, shes a solid 8.5

This sucks. lol
put yourselves in myshoes. what would you do?
Thank you

 

[DoubleA]

francheezy,

Money you are acting like a man in his late twenties. You're not at a crossroad. You're only twenty for Pete's sake.

You're twenty man. If you want a GF, you don't go in looking for one. But you're still young, why press issues?

If I were you, I'd concentrate on getting my stuff together. Especially my paper. Those girls will be there.

Why would you want a serious GF at 20 anyways?

 

[Survivor]

Originally posted by Rollo
Why would you want a serious GF at 20 anyways?

Because he's horny and naive, just like any other normal 20 year old kid.

Francheezy, don't concern yourself with whether or not a girl is "fun" or "smart".

Your main goal is to identify girls that are interested in you.

You seem to not be sure what you want in a female. Well at 20 you are at the perfect age to find out.

First, make yourself physically attractive, then date MANY girls. ALL kinds of girls. Run through them like Kleenex. These experiences with multiple women will help you in the far, far future when it is time to settle down long term.

Go out, learn some game, sow some oats and mack on. Women are not the headache we make them out to be. 99% of the time, the problems we have with women we bring upon ourselves.

Forget about "fun" or "smart". Instead find girls that are "interested". You should dating at least 3 girls at any given time. At your age, LTRs are possible, but not recommended.

And as far as those coffee shop girls go, if you are equally attracted to both girls, then pursue the one you think shows the most interest in you.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Why not go after smart girls who are funny? Too simple, huh?

 

[Bible_Belt]

You had better like to dance if you pursue the Brazilian. And remember it's Portugese not Spanish. Do a Google search and read about Carnival in Rio. btw, "carnival" is not pronounced like the American word for fair/festival. Instead, it's car-nee-vAL, emphasis on the last syllable Ask her if she has ever jumped (danced) at carnival in Rio and her eyes will light up.

 

[francheezy]

I realize its portuguese, I'm actually hispanic myself so I know how they work. Very similar cultures.
Anyhow, Im in the loop with the lebanese one already, since I havent seen the brazilian in a while. BTW< I just realized that the lebanese one is soooooooo I mean ridiculously funny. I was laughing for a solid hour yesterday, shes hilarious. And smart - and a goofball which I like
So lebanese it is
Cute, smart, funny as hell and focused. I like I like

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Why not go after smart girls who are funny? Too simple, huh?

you took the words outta my mouth francisco

 

[francheezy]

how would you guys approach if shes constantly studying?
I've been brain farted for a couple days now, they are in finals in med school and they are cranking out the work. Prob is, how do you approach if shes only studying with a friend all the time?
lol
this sucks