"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fun Date and then...

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outofleftfield1987

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Hey guys,

So I go over to this girls place last night, watched a movie, things went well, arm around her all night....We've hooked up numerous times at the bar, then I suggested a hang out for the other night so we stayed in at her place, chilled, drank a bit.

Good rapport all night, I only suggested the hangout cause all of her friends were telling me she likes me, and she's an HB9.

Didn't kiss her during the movie, but teased her lots, even though we were basically snuggling the whole time, but on the way out gave her a hug and then we kissed at the door before I went, not a fullout make out but a decently long kiss as I left.

Whats the next step after date one? I am interested in actually dating this broad, not just messing around and chilling with her. I wanna ease into the whole dating thing.

Any suggestions from the guru's as to what I can do now to make her want me even more than before?

Thanks in advance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the next step after date one?
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Your next step should have been YOUR LAST STEP. You should have escalated things when watching a movie with her. Women don't invite you to the comfort of their home for you to be a wimp and not give them the action they crave. This has led many down the path of the friend zone so be careful.
 
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When do you think is a good time to go for date 2? within a few days? I was thinking of calling on Monday for a wednesday date?

I'm just also in a mixed up state right now, as my father is in the hospital back in my hometown, and neither of my parents will tell me whats going on so I'm confused and concerned:confused:

What is a good way to set up date two do you think so I can escalate more?
 
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outofleftfield1987 said:
When do you think is a good time to go for date 2? within a few days? I was thinking of calling on Monday for a wednesday date?

I'm just also in a mixed up state right now, as my father is in the hospital back in my hometown, and neither of my parents will tell me whats going on so I'm confused and concerned:confused:

What is a good way to set up date two do you think so I can escalate more?
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Seriously? Forget about this chick and go see your father.
Priorities dude.
 
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outofleftfield1987

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I have my priorities straight man, I just live too far away now at school to just zip home. And the good news is I found out it isn't that serious. Phew.

If i hung out with her friday, when is a good time to call for a second date? mon/tues i would think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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At this point, I don't think it matters WHEN you call. If for your first date, you were at HER place and watching a movie and you failed to make any moves... let alone, get laid... she probably won't pick up the phone anyway.

Next time you are at a woman's place... it really means she wants you inside her... or at least assume that she does.
 
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