Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Fun and cheap date?

ChalengeGuyFan

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Lately, I get bored easily by sitting at a table sipping a drink and talking, so I'm not going to do that - or not for long.
Also, too much talking makes my balls shrink so I won't have the courage to escalate. Therefore I'm cutting "strolling" of the list, as well. (if I think about the times when having a walk made me puss out and fk up the date I'll get really disgusted :whistle:. Plus, HTF do you make the transition from convo to makeout?)

Soo, what else is there that is cheap (I'm really short on money), fun, doesn't lead to too much talking (I already know some things about this girl; we partied together [+ friends] on the New Years party) and allows an easy escalation?


Thanks!

EDIT: and that won't last more than ~100 minutes. (or boredom ensues) :)
 

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I'm not the type of person who does dinner dates, but what I like to do is hangout dates. Like for example, I like playing tennis so I would take her to the courts for an hour or 2 and beat the crap out of her. lol (im really good) :p

If I need to get my car washed, I go to these self wash car washes and have her help me wash and dry the car.

And if she was good, I take her to Mcdonalds and order from the dollar menu...lol
 

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EA Gold said:
I'm not the type of person who does dinner dates, but what I like to do is hangout dates. Like for example, I like playing tennis so I would take her to the courts for an hour or 2 and beat the crap out of her. lol (im really good) :p

If I need to get my car washed, I go to these self wash car washes and have her help me wash and dry the car.

And if she was good, I take her to Mcdonalds and order from the dollar menu...lol
you are full of it :crackup:
 

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I dunno, it's wintertime, ice skating? But really, what you should do is work on your skills of escalating. The only way is to practice by putting yourself in situations that force you to escalate. How about bowling?
 

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Has anybody ever pulled off something like the car wash or grocery shopping with a woman? Maybe make her wash my underwear? I bet that will make her feel sexy and feminine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only fun and cheap date there is, is called sex. Get some cash before you want to go on a date. Otherwise, invite her over.
 

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Try taking girls to university art exhibits or take them walk-in art museums.
 

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Check to see if your town has one of those used/antique book stores nearby or even make an excuse to have her go to the library with you.

It's a good way to get a lot of different convo's going, but more importantly, the aisles in both places can be really tight which leads to a lot of natural kino when you pass by her or are reaching over.

Once you get the kino going, and get a good read, the kiss-close in a secluded-but-private setting can be kind of hot.
 

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Soo, what else is there that is cheap (I'm really short on money), fun, doesn't lead to too much talking (I already know some things about this girl; we partied together [+ friends] on the New Years party) and allows an easy escalation?
Hmmm..I got a couple of this that have worked for me. Try them out and see what works for you:

-The car-wash idea actually works (I got foam on her and sprayed her with water and she loooved it (summertime of course))
-Try going to an arcade and beat her at some games(gives you chance to kino).
-Go to the park and have a picnic; girls simply love this stuff. If you wanna take it to the next level, you can have her make some sandwiches and you bring something to drink.
-Bring her over to your place and watch a movie (and escalate of course).
-Go to a museum together; it is wiiicked fun! I went to one when I was starting to see my current gf about a year ago. There was a combustion engine and I was like " Woah! nah-ah, the combustion engine!" I explained to her how the motor worked and how it made the car move. I had lots and lots of action that night (she escalated lol). She made a comment a few days later about how turned on my knowledge got her. I was like ? :yes: ok! haha

- Last, but not least: watch the greatest pick up in history.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=njWpwobbKLc
 
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This ones simple, get into a conversation joking that you bet she's a great cook. Ask her to invite you over to her place and have her cook for you. Now you are at her place without ANY dates whatsoever. You can EASILY escalate from there after dinner on the couch.

If you want tell her you will bring the wine and just buy a cheap bottle from the local liquor store. Ask the manager for a decent cheap wine recommendation and for less than let say $20 (sometimes less than $10) your laid.

Worked for me more than a few times in the past.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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