"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fully plan your dates.

quest

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Last night I took a girl to the International Comedy Festival, in Melbourne. Everything went smooth. Looked good, smelt good, picked her up on time, kissed her hello, knew exactly which roads to take, and how long it would take, conversation flowed easily. Hell, i even made an awesome reverse park.

Everything was perfect.

It was monday night, why would I need to book tickets? It was a local comedian, of course there'd be some seats. It was in a big hall.

and suddenly everything fell to peices. There were no tickets remaining. We couldn't see the show. I had no backup plan. My original plan was in tatters.

Luckily i'm experienced in saving bad dates. We did manage to have fun.

The moral of the story? Give yourself enough time to plan your dates properly, not just taking the time to get ready, know everything thats going to happen. You'll save yourself from being very embarrassed and having to re-evaluate what to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RogueWarrior

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Speaking from long personal experience, nothing ever goes as planned. You might think that you've played out every possible scenario but ultimately what will happen is something you didn't expect.

Yes, the seven P's are very important but you also need to be flexible and be able to roll with the punches too. Don't let yourself get rattled but some unforseen catastrophe. She won't want to be around you if you're all tensed up because you can't deal with it.
 
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