"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FUkNN IMPROVEMENT

LegendBoy

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Well thanks to this site I have made some very good improvements, but very far from where I want to be. So I gotta continue, getting no and approaching ain't easy but its not really my biggest prob I can do it, which I could never do before.

I got a few questions when I get a chicks no from school i talk to her at school and on the phone, I exchange messages occasionally too. I never knew her and introduced myself etc and when i asked no i got it sooo. Where from here, how can I make it known I am interested without her being scared I mean she already probably knows I do some random guy talkking 2 her and ****. Ye i made her laugh on the phone too.So where the **** from here????/

Another question what would you say if a girl said " Do you like me" or something along them lines and what would askn that mean you's think.

PEace thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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hey man its kinda hard to read ur writing and im not usually picky on that kinda stuff....

anyways, she already knows youre interested so dont worry about that. jus dont make it seem like ur obsessed wit her. talk to her some more until both of u are comfortable then ask her out

and if a girl asks "do u like me?" its usually a good sign...so if that happened, i would jus play around wit em like "do I like u? i dont kno, whyre u asking?" then theyll prolly smile and be like "i dont kno, i was jus wonderin" then u could say somethin like "sounds like ur tryin to tell me somthin..."

overall, dont overcomplicate things man. go wit your gut instinct cus even if youre wrong, youll learn somethin for the future
 

LegendBoy

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Thanks bud, some nice responses I could give..

She is a girl, not really getting attention from other guys. On the phone she calls herself a nerd and ****, and ye i poke fun at that. Ill just give it time, I am just going to make a move at school, dunno how to kiss close the job, making just escalate.

You know somethings in these situations I crystal ball would rock so I could know if they're interested in or not, so Iwoulnd't waste time.
 

JayUK

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Grab her hand man, or kiss her on the cheek'
shell say 'wat was that for' then jus say i jus felt like kissin u oon the cheek
then hang ther for like a millisecond, u can say 'do u mind?' or u can jus walk away an play it cool, or jus lean in for the big kiss then.

Be cool man
 
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