"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fukked girl, found "Azithromycin" by her bed....
- Thread starter SMS 48
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
loveshogun
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Yes it can be cured. No, it's not gone forever - you can get it again if you decide to bang someone who has it without a condom.SMS 48 said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chlamydia_infection
There's this thing called the internet where you can look up information. Try it.
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It's called sarcasm. Most people are capable of it, right up until their face melts from late stage syphillis.SMS 48 said:
Seriously. Get tested. I don't even know why you're still writing in this thread.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How ironic. My question was sarcasmloveshogun said:
Test coming tomorrow. I wanted to see if other people heard of it in the meanwhile to calm my nerves. You can feel free to unsubscribe from this thread in the meanwhile
Anyways, for those who are interested, text convo with her:
Me: (blah blah asking her about it)
Her: I had strep a few months ago. Whatre you looking at my meds now??
Me: It was right there out in the open... I noticed it like I noticed your pictures on the wall and other random things in your room.
Her: Yeah, I should really clean up. Anyway, no worries, I didn't give you strep, those are from a while ago.