"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FUKK IT. I've Had Enough!

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Yo Mods:

I know ya'll guys can't do a Big Brother 24/7, but damn, so many fukkin' posts where they OBVIOUSLY don't belong.

Why the hell is someone posting about CD's on the Dating Forum? This fills the forum with all this irrelavent shyt (at the expense of some good posts which may not get looked at).

Fukk It. I finished my RANT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eternal

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Maybe we need more Mods to clean up the forums.
 

Nocturnal

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according to Allen, there's a limit.

at least we got NEW ones (in the HS forum).

i seriously think there's a prob with newbies screwing up the forums.... not much WE can do about it though but b!tch and moan. that doesn't help now does it? So i'm gonna stop.

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What do you think? Ehh... i guess she's OKAY.
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blah blah you kids are so silly blah blah
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll volunteer too if need be.
 
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