"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

fukbud holds my hand. over the line?

tony-montana

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2007
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
we were watching a movie last night and she put her head on my shoulder and held my hand for a while. i didn't mind but is that too much for people who are not gf/bf?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Tiguere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2009
Messages
1,036
Reaction score
85
I would do whatever lovey dovey stuff my **** buddy wants me to do with her as long is behind closed doors. AwayYyy from everyone.
 

sodbuster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2008
Messages
2,560
Reaction score
373
Age
67
Location
South Dakota
Yes,she will. BUT as long as she is clear on the status-you haave done NOTHING wrong that she complain about. IF she tries,just tell her you knew the deal. YOU didn't try to mislead her,she may have tried to mislead you[thinking sex would bring you around
 

SmoothTalker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2003
Messages
1,020
Reaction score
12
Location
Canada
There are no real 'rules' so it depends on if you think it was too far.

Personally as Tiguere said I have no problem with an FB doing any of that cutesy stuff as long as it's not in public. I mean it costs me nothing and helps her not feel like a *****, which usually makes girls much happier about continuing such arrangements.

Your experiences may vary.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top