"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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fuk buddy chats to other guys, cam, etc..

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no im not jealous.. im just wondering whats goin on in her mind. we fuk and have fun and i only see her as a fuk buddy nothing more. so i dont really care how many guys she chats to. but when im with her at her house like right now.. she chats to so many guys on the net.. they call her phone and they talk.. she watches guys masturbate on cam and she openly tells me about it and we just laugh about it ... cause i really dont mind. maybe shes just havin some fun? we were up all mornin fuking yesterday so we dont have problems sexually.

is there any reason shes doing this since shes already got me as a fuk buddy? and dont say cause im not fun enough cause we hang out all day and ive been sleeping her the past couple nights. we have plenty of fun and a good laugh.

p.s; she knows i see other girls.. maybe shes tryin to do the same.. with guys?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why does it trouble you if you don't care?
 

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it doesn't. im just wondering why she does it infront of me and lets me know about it.
 

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chance- said:
it doesn't. im just wondering why she does it infront of me and lets me know about it.
Probably because she's a wh0re
 

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Iceberg said:
Probably because she's a wh0re
i second that.
this girl sounds like she likes sex and only sex.
don't invest any feelings into this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Probably trying to make you jealous.

She's clearly going to some trouble to show off how many guys she has on the go.
 

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Nah..She's using you as a fuk buddy so you do the same to her. This is happening to me right now as we speak, though she's not as hardcore as your girl is. Quickly find another girl to keep you sane, and don't develop feelings.

f-buddy is a weird relationship.
 

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Sounds like she sees you as a friend to me. If she is comfortable enough with you to not only fvck you but tell you about the other guys as well then sounds like you got a true and blue fvck buddy.

I don't see the problem. You got good sex, a friend, and no drama.

why is this a problem you ask? Well really, I don't see one. I don't see her trying to play games with you if all you do is fvck and she knows all about you and other chicks

sounds like a chick who just loves sex with no games. There are a lot of those

enjoy it for what it is, but do NOT try and change it to anything more.
 

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I liked when a fvck buddy has her phone but doesnt get any calls only a few texts ath the most. then text back, sets down the phone and you continue to do what it is you do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I hope you come to these boards truthful about not having feelings for this girl. Because it just so happens that 99% of the guys who say they don't have feelings bout a girl they post, DO, ironically.

But you could be the exception, who knows.

If you are emotionally attached, cut away before you rip your own heart to shreds.

Now that that's out of the way, realize that women, just like men are obsessed with sex; if not the same, then MORE.

The only thing that's stopping most women from showing this in public is society. Society labels 'slut' as a negative and 'pimp' as a positive (in a lot of instances at least).

This makes for millions of women who are undercover sex freaks. That's right; women watch porn and masturbate just like we do. Maybe you don't know about it, but they do.

I always laugh about this topic because I remember my best friend who still dates his girlfriend. This girl is cute and very down to earth. A virgin until he slammed her.

Comes to be that he finds that she hid interracial rape scenes in her bookmarks on her computer.. real violent ****. White women being destroyed by black men. Curious, my friend actually HID in her closet one night to see if she actually visits them. As expected, she whips out her vibrator and goes to town down there as she watches these videos.

All women love sex. Even those who you wouldn't imagine. It's just the question of whether they want to tell people or not.
 

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chance- said:
no im not jealous..
Yes you are

chance- said:
im just wondering whats goin on in her mind. we fuk and have fun and i only see her as a fuk buddy nothing more. so i dont really care how many guys she chats to. but when im with her at her house like right now.. she chats to so many guys on the net.. they call her phone and they talk.. she watches guys masturbate on cam and she openly tells me about it and we just laugh about it ... cause i really dont mind. maybe shes just havin some fun? we were up all mornin fuking yesterday so we dont have problems sexually.

is there any reason shes doing this since shes already got me as a fuk buddy? and dont say cause im not fun enough cause we hang out all day and ive been sleeping her the past couple nights. we have plenty of fun and a good laugh.

p.s; she knows i see other girls.. maybe shes tryin to do the same.. with guys?
Why are you surprised? If she is willing to be your friend with benefits, she will be willing to do so with other guys as well.
 

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chance- said:
is there any reason shes doing this since shes already got me as a fuk buddy? and dont say cause im not fun enough cause we hang out all day and ive been sleeping her the past couple nights.
DONT stay over that much ...
and one guy obviously isnt enough for her

hope you wrap up while over there!
 
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yeah we been goin alright still. beleive me i don't have feelings for her. but i do like her as a friend who i have sex with. shes cool to hang out with but i dont LOVE her. i went over after school and we fuked and then i went home. tonight she came out openly telling me she was in need of a fuk and almost came over for one but we were both tired. its going alright so far. been about a month now.
 

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Why are you trying to figure out a F-B?

If you don't care, then why do you feel the need to try to rationalize what her train of thought is?

Just be glad you have someone on the sidelines and nothing else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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