"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fu*ked up big time

Crissco

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Long story short...
-I got into a DWI last week,
-Quit my job because I couldn't get there.
-Went to jail for a bit,
-Had court today, got it rescheduled for Jan 5th,
-Have medical bills to pay
-Credit Card bills
-Living with mother who is killing me(not the most logical person out there)

Any ideas on what to do to raise some quick money? Please don't mention drug dealing, maybe in internet business?
Also any tips of following through with what I say..I get 85% there but just have a big problem following through, not a good thing for the future.

-Crissco
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why did u quit your job just because you couldn't get there. you should have just told them you couldn't make it because you weren't feeling good or personal family reasons/emergency. if i were u, i'd start looking for a part time job. There are no get rich quick schemes if that's what your thinking. I'm going to court for an assualt case right now and and im also facing jail time possibly. don't take this stuff lightly, find a job and prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
 

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I got one this summer So I have been through the process.
You need to get a job quick not just for the money reasons, but because it will look good to the court. Gives them a reason to keep you out of jail.

I've known of two situations where the court will either want you to pay up right then and if you can't will throw you in jail or more likely set you up with a payment plan and/or probation officer and a time limit to pay.

There is no quick money schemes and you certainly don't want to do anything else illegal.
 

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AAAgent said:
why did u quit your job just because you couldn't get there. you should have just told them you couldn't make it because you weren't feeling good or personal family reasons/emergency. if i were u, i'd start looking for a part time job. There are no get rich quick schemes if that's what your thinking. I'm going to court for an assualt case right now and and im also facing jail time possibly. don't take this stuff lightly, find a job and prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
Because its 45 for a taxi each way, making 300 a week aint gonna cut it. Thank
You for the advice brotha.
 

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mpimpin said:
I got one this summer So I have been through the process.
You need to get a job quick not just for the money reasons, but because it will look good to the court. Gives them a reason to keep you out of jail.

I've known of two situations where the court will either want you to pay up right then and if you can't will throw you in jail or more likely set you up with a payment plan and/or probation officer and a time limit to pay.

There is no quick money schemes and you certainly don't want to do anything else illegal.
The judge told me to come back with my tax returns.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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