"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fu-ck me boots.

00Kevin

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I was having a chat with a girl I dated the other day about FMBS (f-cuk me boots) and short skirts.

I told her that some of the girls where I work like to put on hooker boots for the office. Sometimes they even wear leather mini skirts. Yes I know, it can be distracting at times. I then told her that these women are provoking the men there. It is the female version of sexual harassment. I wasn't saying that it's a problem or anything. I'm was just stating the facts.

Then when I called them FMBs she didn't know what I was talking about. After I explained what FMB ment she called me a pig!

I then had to explain to her that it is infact the girls at work that call them FMBs. They even come into my office and ask me if I like their FMBs. You can bet that I do nothing but encourage them. :)

anyway, this girl started to tell me that she likes to wear hooker boots because it is in style. She even told me that she wears them to the office too. But then she tried to tell me that she doesn't wear them to provoke men.

I tried my best to get her to admit that clothing like that only serves one purpose (to provoke men) and that is why hookers wear them.

Then out of no place she acused me of being full of myself for thinking that these girls where wearing their FMBs and short mini skirts just for me.

I then made myself clear and told her that they are provoking all the men in general. After that she huffed and puffed and took off.

anyway, I'm not sure what to make of this chick. First she called me a pig, then she qualifies herself, and then runs away with her anit slut defence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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00Kevin

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
What's the problem, she sounds like your typical Torontonian girl to me.... :p
yeah f-ucken useless.
 

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When a hot woman walks in the room all the men look at the woman. When a hot woman walks in the room all the women look at the woman.

Women dress for competition of the other women and for style just like she said. Boots and high pointy heels are in fashion now. If they all are doing it then it has nothing to do with the men.

If only one women was doing it then you might have be able to make a point of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by flexion_
When a hot woman walks in the room all the men look at the woman. When a hot woman walks in the room all the women look at the woman.

Women dress for competition of the other women and for style just like she said. Boots and high pointy heels are in fashion now. If they all are doing it then it has nothing to do with the men.

If only one women was doing it then you might have be able to make a point of it.
hmm never thought of that ....

sounds quite accurate..
 

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There is an old saying which is very similar to what Flexion said, and it kinda goes like this: Men get dressed up to impress women, women get dressed up to impress other women".

It's soooo true that women dress in competition with one another. My job takes me into high schools all over the city where I live, and regardless of the dress code, it's easy to make these observations.....

In the mind of the woman you were talking to about the FMBs, she was thinking like a woman - what will the other women think, instead of what you (I'd be guilty of this too though) were probably thinking - is she more attractive to a man.......
 

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No self respecting working girl wears hooker boots to work, that's just stupid. "because it's fashionable" gimmie a break, fashionably slutish maybe. Ask that girl if clear heals are appropriate attire to wear to dinner with your parents. Unbelieveable, the mentality of somepeoplke these days.
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
When a hot woman walks in the room all the men look at the woman. When a hot woman walks in the room all the women look at the woman.

Women dress for competition of the other women and for style just like she said. Boots and high pointy heels are in fashion now. If they all are doing it then it has nothing to do with the men.

If only one women was doing it then you might have be able to make a point of it.

Competition between women is in the end for the attention of men.

There is no reason why a woman should need to dress like slut. There are far more expensive and stylish fashions then FMBs.

Women dress to aquire the attention of men. That is the natural order of things. They can put up their anti-slut defence all they want but in the end they are just seeking attention.

No man should ever feel guilty about admiring a hot chick with FMBS and a short leather mini.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
No self respecting working girl wears hooker boots to work, that's just stupid. "because it's fashionable" gimmie a break, fashionably slutish maybe. Ask that girl if clear heals are appropriate attire to wear to dinner with your parents. Unbelieveable, the mentality of somepeoplke these days.
I totally agree
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Clear heels? Whats wrong with those at dinner?
clear heals are the standard shoe for strippers while stripping.
 

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i would love for my girl to wear clear heels anywhere and everywhere. i dig that.
 

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pics anyone?

I've seen some classy boots. The chick I'm dating, usually wears some.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I typed in f*ck-me boots in google and got a dozen porn sites.

Jeezus, Americans have the most f*cked up names for their clothing! F*ck me clothes, wifebeaters...
 
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