FTW, I'm Gonna Become an *******

[The Frustrated Chump]

Alright, here's the scoop. I've been chasing this girl for the last.. 4 years? Or so. And everytime she says "I like just being friends." But I'd lay off for a couple weeks and then go back at it. But this time, I totally thought I had her. She told my best friend and his girlfriend that I would be the perfect boyfriend and everything. So I ask her what she thinks about me and her being together. And she's like "idk.. i mean we're pretty fricken good. but i'd like to just stay friends. i know its not what you want to hear... but.." So last night, got drunk, cried. And then came to the conclusion, "F#ck The World, I'm going to become an A$$hole."

Good plan, right? It sounds good to me...:box:

Edit: I'm a senior this year, I'm a starting football player on the varsity team. I dress good, I'm groomed good. I really dont get it. And I've been chasing her since the 8th grade. God damn, FTW.

 

[HandyAndy]

I've been chasing this girl for the last.. 4 years?

What!?! WHY!?!

And everytime she says "I like just being friends." But I'd lay off for a couple weeks and then go back at it.

Why!? Leave her alone, youve been in the friendzone for 4 years, stop!

So I ask her what she thinks about me and her being together. And she's like "idk.. i mean we're pretty fricken good. but i'd like to just stay friends. i know its not what you want to hear... but.."

FRIEND ZONE

So last night, got drunk, cried.

The fvck? Please b1tch slap yourself

And then came to the conclusion, "F#ck The World, I'm going to become an A$$hole."

No, that wont work.

Good plan, right?

No its stupid.

Get a grip!

 

[saturos]

i lol'd hard at the second post

But he is right. Stop chasing her or sooner or later you won't even be friends at all. I'm betting as of right now, her plan is that after high school, she'll never have to see you again.
If i were the girl, i would be really, really annoyed by you. I know a few annoying kids at school that tag along and the like and i detest them, but i don't have the heart, and nor do my friends, to just tell them to screw off.

 

[coolf1r3]

Alright, here's the scoop. I've been chasing this girl for the last.. 4 years?
Alright, I hope you feel stupid about it.
Or so. And everytime she says "I like just being friends." But I'd lay off for a couple weeks and then go back at it.
Yeah, it doesn't work like that.
But this time, I totally thought I had her. She told my best friend and his girlfriend that I would be the perfect boyfriend and everything. So I ask her what she thinks about me and her being together. And she's like "idk.. i mean we're pretty fricken good. but i'd like to just stay friends. i know its not what you want to hear... but.."
You got pwned...hard.
So last night, got drunk, cried.
Because alcohol and tears cure any problem, right? Wrong.
And then came to the conclusion, "F#ck The World, I'm going to become an A$$hole."
Good for you. You'll be going from idiot savant to an a$$hole who has no respect for women or anybody for that matter.
Good plan, right? It sounds good to me...:box:
No, not a good plan. You're an idiot if you think that's going to work. Horrible idea. No one likes a jerk.
Edit: I'm a senior this year, I'm a starting football player on the varsity team. I dress good, I'm groomed good. I really dont get it. And I've been chasing her since the 8th grade. God damn, FTW.
Really now? Congratulations, you have some social proof that you can use. But by becoming a jerk, you're going to lose it, along with your friends.

Listen. Relationships are about MUTUAL respect. You have to respect the person you're talking to, not condescend to them.

 

[Crazy Asian]

yes become an *******.
people will start to dislike you, but it's ok cause ur having fun.
then slowly find a balance between the two.

 

[Akyu]

Never talk to this chick again... seriously. Just forget about her. It won't be easy trust me, but it's best option you can take.

 

[jeffthechef]

i think you're still unexperienced..you haven't been out into the world enough to see all the beautiful women..once you recognize the fact that there's more girls out there you'll start to become open minded and get rid of your oneitis.....honestly, since i got rid of my oneitis...i've been getting more action from the ladies..and find myself having a harder time choosing one..GO OUT AND MEET NEW GIRLS
OPEN UP YOUR EYES AND YOU'LL BE A CHANGED GUY

 

[War Against Betaism]

Don't become an a$$hole, this is the tendency of almost all AFC's; when they pursue hard and fall hard, they become bitter to women. Guys like David DeAngelo and David X promote becoming *******s but that really isn't the road to take. The whole "That isn't who I am" is true to an extent...don't become somebody you aren't because of this. If you're a nice guy that can't get women, don't become a jackass just to get women. Nice guys get women too, but these types of guys are the ones with a delicate balance in them of jerkoff and nice guy. It's hard to become a true alpha male but easy to be a jerkoff, but becoming that jerkoff isn't very rewarding. I wouldn't say that I'm a true alpha male, I still falter from time to time but I can honestly say I'm very pleased with my progress, I feel like I'm on a very bright road to becoming that true alpha male everyone wants to be.

When I first started my transformation, I tried becoming that jerkoff and even though I would get responses, I didn't feel good about myself, and there were some people that were annoyed of me too. I was a lot more calm and gained a mountains load of more confidence and now I'm getting the women AND I feel good about myself. You don't want to hate yourself just to get women.

 

[S.Y.L]

Dont talk to her for like longer than 2 weeks. Go for a month.

 

[The Frustrated Chump]

Instead of one month. I'll go for three lol

But really, thanks guys. I have a new outsight now after reading what everyone had to say. Even Handy Andy, who did it in the most blunt way possible. I mean, last night. I texted her and said whats up. (Ya know, we're just friends.. riiight?) She said she's looking for a party, I said I was already at one. She asked where, and I didnt even reply. So she asked where again and I replied an hour later saying the beer is gone. But now I'm just going to let her go and play the field. I think that's the best option I have right now.

 

[SinJester]

Your one problem is that you have oneitus for this girl and can't get over her. Everything else is a symptom not a cause

Here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147379