Frustration Is Setting In

[StrangeButTrue]

Here's the deal.

I found this site last spring, and I worked hard all summer to improve my physique, and did pretty well.

Late summer, I finally got my chance. My friend and I met up with a couple chicks, and I just let loose. I had them eating out of my hand in two hours. They were puddy in my hands. It was the greatest thing I ever experienced. We hung out a few more times, and I couldn't be stopped. They were laughing the whole time, and I worked in plenty of ****y.

We eventually stopped hanging out because the chick who really liked me didn't wanna put out, and I figured if I kept this up, I could get any chick I wanted.

The First day of school (this is before the chicks and I split) I made an impression with every chick I saw. They were googly eyed over me.

But for some reason, I lost my game, and I can't get it back. I can't reopen that spot inside me that made me the most fun I've ever been or had.

I have the ****y part, that's easy, but without being funny I think I come off as a jerk more than a cool guy.

The bottom line is, help me get my groove back! Any suggestions for getting in the mindset? How do you guys prepare? This is the most frustrating thing that's ever happened to me, because I KNOW I can do it, I've done it before, but it just doesn't happen. Everything feels forced.

Thanks for reading that, I know it was long.

Peace

 

[wavejams007]

Dude, this is going to sound like a physiquianalysis, but
1. What was your mindset when you were connecting well with girls?( What thoughts did you have)
2. What type of jokes did you crack?
3. Are there any other issues in your life that could be affecting your game?
4. Did you use a winman, and what tipe of friends did you hang out with?

These are just some questions to think about. When you have an answer, write back and then something might be able to be done easier and more effective.

 

[wavejams007]

Another thing, What type f posture did you have( straight back vs. humped, etc)?

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

dating girls in school is retarded

personally, i never date girls i go to school with. seeing them all day every day just gnaws at me till i can't stand them

date girls from other schools

ps if you see the same girls everyday then, much like a marriage, eventually you just have nothing left to say

it works for some people, but not me

 

[StrangeButTrue]

1. What was your mindset when you were connecting well with girls?( What thoughts did you have)
2. What type of jokes did you crack?
3. Are there any other issues in your life that could be affecting your game?
4. Did you use a winman, and what tipe of friends did you hang out with?

I was in a positive mindset, I guess. I just cracked any jokes that came to mind, and they always killed. I can't think of any factors that would be affecting me. I had a wingman that first night and some subsequent ones when I had the girls eating out of my hand, but the first days of school I was basically alone with the girls and achieved the same effect.

My posture was and is good.

Thanks again.